alfa88 wrote:I heard this 2nd hand. Hubby was feeling particularly amorous and decided to completely shave down there. When the wife caught sight of his shaved manhood she says, "oh! how cute". His manhood turned to boyhood if you know what I mean.
In my case I've advised wifey that talking about Moms, Fathers, etc. is a mood killer to me but she still doesn't get it.
Well, how she said it could make a huge difference. I hope he did not misinterpret her remark. Simple misunderstandings can be tragic. I, myself, have killed a mood with an off-hand remark (meant to be a compliment) that went in the wrong direction by the time it hit my lover's ears.
Did she regard his manhood as infantile (unless she likes that particular fetish) or "cute - like a puppy, cuddly and kissable".
My girlfriend and I have been experimenting with grooming styles and having fun while doing it. A couple weeks ago, we trimmed each other. She trimmed me extremely close (less than 1/16" / 2mm) - as close as we could get without risk of the clippers cutting into my skin - we did not want to use a razor and I had clippers with plastic "guides" for controlling length of hair, so we used a setting of zero).
I will be letting my hair grow out and over the next few weeks let her decide just what length she likes. Nearly slick and smooth, peach fuzz, velvety fuzzy, on up to full curly. The sensations I get when she fondles me are subtly different as well. Sex sure is fun! and it is not all about the erection, either. Not worrying about the erection (or the size of it) frees a couple to explore a wider range of appreciations for one another.
The foregoing digression brings me to my point: If a remark was meant kindly or sympathetically, that is something a relationship can build on to become better and healthier. Even if the expression of it was initially received as disappointing, cruel or hurtful. On the other hand, if the original intent was actually unkind in nature, then the relationship definitely needs some adjustment
