Question To Frank Talk

[handfulWES]

I am concerned in starting yet another topic. I have several request about different topics/subjects. I can't help but believe IF ONE INDIVIDUAL is asking that there are many others who have the same thought but might be a bit shy. As you may gather from my post, I am neither shy or do I run from anything. OK I might try to run from a falling airplane or from a 45 pointed in my direction. You know as I think about it I was a rotten shot with my M19 Glock but with a 30/30 I could put every shot in the bulls eye. Don't get me wrong, I could well hit an individual, with my glock but it might not be in the head or thru the heart.

The largest of the request are questions to ask your doctor in getting an implant. Another is about having enough energy to function and with that what could I do be horny again. These are at the top of the list. At first (and will still do this) thought of just answering the different individuals separately. In thinking this might be something that many might like to know the answers.

So here goes:

I want to start with Energy and being HORNY!
My first question to the question is have you looked at yourself in the mirror. Are you way over weight. I am not preaching here I am only making a statement. Second, when did you have your Testosterone checked. Two questions for 2 questions.

I know many of you will say with prostate cancer my doctor will not give me "T" and my answer is bull shit. If your doctor is worth anything at all, a small dosage of say 200mgs every 2 weeks should be fine. No more than that and most may try 100mgs once a week or even one squirt of gel per day on your shoulder. I prefer the 200mgs injection every two weeks because it is suspended in oil and is observed very slowly. It generally takes your second shot to actually know you have started. The gel could take 2 weeks to show up as well. This will do 2 things. One it will start to give you some energy but better, your mind set will be sharper and your HORNY will show up one morning like you turned on a light.

None of the above is going to be worth much if you are 40 or more pounds overweight. BUT, AND I SAY BUT, once you start the "T", that will actually help your mind set to loose weight. I am a big guy. Like 6' 2" with large bones, size 12 foot get the picture. To have shirts with tails long enough I generally have to go to big and TALL because I am very long wasted. What does this mean. I have a 32 inseam, but more of my height is from my wast to my shoulders. Some guys have very long legs but what we call short wast. Although 32 inch inseam isn't exactly short it isn't like the guy who has a 36 inch inseam and he is say only 6' 3". His is just arranged different.

I had something happen in my life back in July of 2017 and I almost took my life. I am a Vietnam Vet and someone who thought scaring me was funny did it in such a way after I had asked several times please don't do that sent me square back to the battle field in 1971 and I lost it. I couldn't function. I almost couldn't get out of bed. I lived in a 5th floor apartment with a balcony and I almost jumped one night. When that wasn't enough it took from July to late October for mental health to see me at the VA. I had a mental health MALE RN just over 3 hours away who started talking to me everyday on the phone. At the end of the first week, he came and spent the weekend with me. I begged him to take me home with him. We are good friends and I am almost fully recovered, still on SSRI's and many of you know what I am talking about. THE POINT: I have lost 58 pounds and I feel sexy and more horny. OFTEN the SSRI's will do that, the other part of that story is often to bust a nut is real work. I am in the process of getting off them. BACK TO THE REST OF THE STORY: I had so gradually put this weight on, I was wearing 3X clothing that I hadn't notice the real me. I am down to XL and I feel so good about myself. I got to were all I wore for undies were big boxers but now I can wear boxer briefs that are stretchy and I have a small ass, if I had a tummy tuck I wouldn't even have any over lap. It makes me feel sexy and you know what FAR MORE HORNY than with just the "T". I have a heart problem that makes me short winded sometimes but even that is better.

This is some help for being horny, having more energy and guys learn to eat veggies. I was raised on a farm so veggies for me is a common thing anyway. LEAFY GREEN veggies is good for your DICK. Seafood, like oysters in fact any shell type creature is great for your sex life because of all the zinc it contains. I eat a ton of red meat and eggs because of protein. Milk and dairy products by the gallon and pound. I am still loosing weight and I do not take a damn thing but good home cooked food. OK TONIGHT: The menu is NY Strip steaks cut thick about 3/4 of an inch, oven roasted steak fries and a fresh toss salad with dressing that isn't fat free.

Guys this is a start to the first part. I just looked at the time and I will post the questions most likely on Saturday. I will travel tomorrow to Richmond, VA to the VA and that is just an all day process. I am about 2 1/2 hours out but I always allow about 3 1/2 to get there. I have a 2 pm appointment and should get out of Richmond in the rush hour traffic. I guess I will drive my convertible, my babe machine. LOL Steve will be going with me and we often play a game at night on the way home because we have a lot of lonely road. I don't feel so well and that part of the trip may or may not happen.

OH, I have had some wonderful PM's since I have joined Frank Talk. I want to put in a plug here: PLEASE feel free to PM me and ask anything. I don't judge, I had my rabbis shot and my bark is far worst than my bite cause all I do is nibble. LOL I have been asked a lot of things but these 2 topics keep coming to the top of the list. From what I can tell so far, this is a hell of a group of guys. We ARE ALL UNIQUE in our own way but we basically share the same need, to function as a man would function. I don't know of anything that leaves you more lonely inside with an ache so deep it goes to the bone and not the one between your legs. Take care and though I have access to the net at the VA generally I am so busy that I just don't have time to do anything. I use my tablet there so I will check things but write very little. The tablet isn't the best way to do it.

WES

[alfa88]

Fortunately I don't have major health problems other than a slight BPH. So about the only other thing I can think of is the extra 40lbs I'm packing. I did HRT a while back and it sort of kick started some weight loss but I plateaued. Cutting back on sweets and alcohol as of late seems to be helping with dropping a few more. In the mean time I'm hoping I find a Trimix formula that does the trick. Hopefully when the extra weight is vanquished I can reduce or even eliminate injections. Time will tell. It can't hurt.