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Hello,

Wify and I have been having difficulties getting a good position on our soft mattress. The mattress is quite soft, so during sex, using missionary position), I seem to be literally chasing the vagina (as it keeps depressing further into the bed under both our weights. We've tried pillows, but that seems to be the same problem.

We think a harder surface will do, and the floor seems to be the only hard surface around. There are other places in the house, but assuming we want to continue using the bedroom, we would appreciate any further ideas, suggestions for different pillows to use?

Thanks PS.

I have a funny story about "floor sex".
While in Korea in 1957, I once paid for sex with a prostitute who was actually not at all pretty.
She must not have brought in enough money for mama-san so she didn't have a bed.
All she had was a straw rug to sleep on.

When we got going, she asked to get on top.
Like the gentleman I was, I agreed.

There was a fire going under the floor and it was very hot.
We had to fight to see who would end up on top.

When we finished, she had a couple drops of blood and said she was a virgin.
We had a good laugh, but at least I didn't get an STD or crabs from her.

tomas1 wrote:I have a funny story about "floor sex".
While in Korea in 1957, I once paid for sex with a prostitute who was actually not at all pretty.
She must not have brought in enough money for mama-san so she didn't have a bed.
All she had was a straw rug to sleep on.

When we got going, she asked to get on top.
Like the gentleman I was, I agreed.

There was a fire going under the floor and it was very hot.
We had to fight to see who would end up on top.

When we finished, she had a couple drops of blood and said she was a virgin.
We had a good laugh, but at least I didn't get an STD or crabs from her.

That's a sad story... to hear that she actually lost her virginity that way instead of something sensual and romantic with someone she actually had feelings for.

Larry

PundaSmith wrote:Hello,

Wify and I have been having difficulties getting a good position on our soft mattress. The mattress is quite soft, so during sex, using missionary position), I seem to be literally chasing the vagina (as it keeps depressing further into the bed under both our weights. We've tried pillows, but that seems to be the same problem.

We think a harder surface will do, and the floor seems to be the only hard surface around. There are other places in the house, but assuming we want to continue using the bedroom, we would appreciate any further ideas, suggestions for different pillows to use?

Thanks PS.

You stand on the floor and pull her bum to the edge of the bed. Put her legs up toward the ceiling and then slip in (either hole hahaha

Larry

Larry, I felt so guilty I married her.

tomas1 wrote:Larry, I felt so guilty I married her.

PundaSmith wrote:Hello,

Wify and I have been having difficulties getting a good position on our soft mattress. The mattress is quite soft, so during sex, using missionary position), I seem to be literally chasing the vagina (as it keeps depressing further into the bed under both our weights. We've tried pillows, but that seems to be the same problem.

We think a harder surface will do, and the floor seems to be the only hard surface around. There are other places in the house, but assuming we want to continue using the bedroom, we would appreciate any further ideas, suggestions for different pillows to use?

Thanks PS.

A sheet of plywood under the mattress helps with a box spring that has weakened over the years. It does not have to be full-sized, either.

There are "wedge" pillows. Some marketed for ease of reading, watching TV, relieving sleep apnea, or for better sex.

In our younger days, my bed was up on blocks at the head for my heartburn. I had a hard time driving it in. I built a 1/2 steel foot board rod that was positioned right at the top of the mattress at the foot. It held the mattress and the sheets and bed covers in place. It was perfect for wrapping my toes around the rod to make me into a pile driver. We also used pillows under her ass. It was later when she discovered that cowboy was her favorite way to grind and get off.

Slightly off topic, but the reason that when we bought our first bed (we've had it for 45 years now), we chose a wooden headboard but not a footboard was that it would interfere with my feet while we were making love. That's called "planning ahead"!

cheap blow up mattress works great and is easy to hide. Just make it firm and it is hard as rock yet soft as silk.