LAST NIGHT'S SEMINAR

[DaveKell]

The auditorium had the largest crowd so far of any previous seminar I've done. I felt the grip of stagefright before my turn to speak. Once I got started it was fine. We took more questions at this event than prior ones. One guy asked me "can you say you're capable of everything now you were on your wedding night?". I told him I have lots less energy but that the actual sex is better now than then. One wife came up to my wife at the end with her husband in tow. She asked my wife "do you have any pointers on how I can convince this guy he has ED?". Awkward moment. My wife replied that the doctor gave an explanation of ED at the beginning. These seminars remain a very personally rewarding experience for me to give lots of guys at once insights into being bionic.

[bldoink]

Good report. It sounds like you're doing good work. It also sounds like that was a wife worth getting an implant for.

[Lost Sheep]

(edited for focus) One wife came up to my wife at the end with her husband in tow. She asked my wife "do you have any pointers on how I can convince this guy he has ED?". Awkward moment. My wife replied that the doctor gave an explanation of ED at the beginning. These seminars remain a very personally rewarding experience for me to give lots of guys at once insights into being bionic.

Wow!
Knowing how fragile a man's ego is, that can be a minefield to discuss. I wonder how she (I assume it was she) convinced her husband to come to the seminar in the first place.

Denial of a problem is not limited to E.D., of course. Denial is a self-protective (even survival) mechanism of one's mind. I am not unfamiliar with the feelings myself.

I also wonder what type of E.D. he has. To me, my E.D. was pretty surely leakage (venous, perhaps, but I suspect it might be direct from the tunica albuginea). But as far as my partners were concerned, it was premature ejaculation (orgasming fast was necessary for me to "get it done" before my erection collapsed). So, (I am speculating) he might feel that since he can penetrate her and orgasm that he does not have E.D., but his wife knows (feels) there is something amiss for his inabiity to STAY erect for any length of time.

I pray that the discussion between the two women (whether or not the husband listened or participated) touched on symptoms and causes and not just results.

[Greg1956]

Dave,
I applaud you for all ou are doing out there to help men (and their significant others) who are dealing with E.D. Issues and unsure how to proceed.

Greg