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Dear friends! I want to describe a situation! I can get hard and keep it for 30 minutes or more for masturbation, with minimal manual stimulation while lying on bed and watching porn without any pills! But, If I do an intercourse in the exact same position even on 25 mg Viagra I go soft within 7 minutes! Why??

Performance anxiety is most likely contributing to your issue. You may also be more sensitive to norepinephrine in the penile tissues. Some men may have a predisposition towards heightened adrenergic tone in the penis than others.

You may also be more sensitive to norepinephrine in the penile tissues. Some men may have a predisposition towards heightened adrenergic tone in the penis than others.[/quote]
Is this situation different with venous leak or the same?

Have you tried experimenting with cock rings?

AnotherOldMan wrote:Have you tried experimenting with cock rings?

Not yet. I'm wondering what element makes that big difference between self stimulation and intercourse erection.

Tellmehow wrote:Is this situation different with venous leak or the same?

If you have heightened sensitivity to adrenergic tone in the erectile tissues, performance anxiety would be more of an issue for you than for someone who does not have this sensitivity. It could be that you just have performance anxiety without the above, however, I feel most men with PA have some degree of this heightened tone.
Venous leak or CVOD is a broad condition encompassing many erectile dysfunction causes. Sympathetic hyperactivity could be considered one of the many causes of CVOD, as it prevents the erectile spaces in the penis from relaxing sufficiently to cause venous occlusion. Therefore blood leaks out and a firm erection is difficult to maintain.

When you try to have intercourse, are you free of time constraints and other distractions?

Sometimes relaxing and engaging in touchy feeely and some oral without having intercourse as a necessary goal con reduce performance anxiety.

dtwarren1942

I think you have hit on a point that needs to be shouted from the rooftops! When my wife and I have sex we try to make sure there are no interruptions or distractions of any kind!!! The slightest distraction can turn our intimate time into a nightmare. No cell phones no anything! We have our lovemaking music and that is it. No door bells, no knocking end of story. We’ve been married for almost 36 yrs and we have these days marked on the calendar. THIS IS OUR PRIVATE TIME! NO INTERRUPTIONS PERIOD! This usually leads to wonderful productive Time alone !