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Womans Perspective

Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2020 3:52 pm
by mod123
All the posts about pre and post-implant is from a man's perspective, that is what sex felt like before and after the implant. Is it possible to get perspectives from women about their experience of sex with their partners pre ad post implant. Did they find a difference and was it more satisfying. Will they recommend implants or not.

Re: Womans Perspective

Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2020 4:02 pm
by Flavio
I don't know if there are women in these forums but they should definitely read some of the topics. Most women are full of preconceived ideas and know nothing about male sexuality.

Re: Womans Perspective

Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2020 4:19 pm
by Lost Sheep
Women are not permitted to be members of FrankTalk.

There has been a lot of discussion on the topic, some of it quite heated. There are valid and compelling arguments on both sides of the question, pro and con. Ultimately Paul has the deciding vote on the matter and he came down on permitting women partners of members to post using their (member) partner's account but not to have membership accounts of their own.

I support his decision even while disagreeing with part of it, as I understand the mission of FrankTalk is paramount. Balancing the value of women's contributions with the chilling effect it may have on men's free expression of their feelings is a delicate balancing act. I sympathize with Paul.

As I understand it, the deciding factor is that anything that would risk discouraging men from speaking frankly (even politically incorrect views) detracts from that mission. If I am wrong about that, Paul, please PM me.

There is another forum that does invite both genders, but it is not nearly so well attended as this one. It is a dot-com, so naming it here in an open thread would risk FrankTalk's non-profit status. PM me if you would like to have a link.

Re: Womans Perspective

Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2020 4:55 pm
by Lost Sheep
Here are a few threads of discussions here (I used the "search" function, but did not vet the results.)
Difference in feeling
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=9310&p=74476&hilit=perspective+female#p74476
How will young women respond to implants?
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=9429&p=75508&hilit=perspective+female#p75508
Women allowed on FrankTalk?
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=10661&p=89359&hilit=perspective+female#p89359
Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=10661&p=89360&hilit=perspective+female#p89360
My boob job!
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=10128&p=99704&hilit=perspective+female#p99704

Re: Womans Perspective

Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2020 4:59 pm
by Lost Sheep
More reading:

Implant case study (Mr and Mrs Roberts)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10654

Any offers for sex from intrigued girls?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=7166

How will young women respond to implants?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 9&start=30

Getting discovered: How to tell a woman
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9236

What will she think? - a womans perspective
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=6513[/quote]

Pumping in front of her a mood killer?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 6&start=10

Another Day, Another Research Question - Sponteneity
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9501

What excuse did you use? (More about explaining the surgery than to your partner)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9787

She can't feel anything (a little bit off the subject)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9594

Afraid of sex
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 3&start=10

Is this a common story?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10089

Does it feel different to her?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10103

Personality changes with sudden restoration of sexual ability
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=3&t=7002

How does implantation change you as a person?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10116

Re: Womans Perspective

Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2020 2:54 am
by mod123
Thanks for the links, much appreciated!

Re: Womans Perspective

Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2020 3:52 am
by Charlie2019
Lost Sheep wrote:Women are not permitted to be members of FrankTalk.

There has been a lot of discussion on the topic, some of it quite heated. There are valid and compelling arguments on both sides of the question, pro and con. Ultimately Paul has the deciding vote on the matter and he came down on permitting women partners of members to post using their (member) partner's account but not to have membership accounts of their own.

I support his decision even while disagreeing with part of it, as I understand the mission of FrankTalk is paramount. Balancing the value of women's contributions with the chilling effect it may have on men's free expression of their feelings is a delicate balancing act. I sympathize with Paul.

As I understand it, the deciding factor is that anything that would risk discouraging men from speaking frankly (even politically incorrect views) detracts from that mission. If I am wrong about that, Paul, please PM me.

There is another forum that does invite both genders, but it is not nearly so well attended as this one. It is a dot-com, so naming it here in an open thread would risk FrankTalk's non-profit status. PM me if you would like to have a link.



Only if people have to pay to gain access to it.

Re: Womans Perspective

Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2020 11:33 am
by Flavio
Lost Sheep wrote:Women are not permitted to be members of FrankTalk.

[...]

I support his decision even while disagreeing with part of it, as I understand the mission of FrankTalk is paramount. Balancing the value of women's contributions with the chilling effect it may have on men's free expression of their feelings is a delicate balancing act. I sympathize with Paul. [...]


I didn't know that and I totally agree with Paul.

Re: Womans Perspective

Posted: Sun Aug 16, 2020 1:49 am
by Lost Sheep
Charlie2019 wrote:Only if people have to pay to gain access to it.

I am signed up there and have never been asked for any information more than any other support group (including FrankTalk), nor money. No nothing but the promise of a helpful or needy attitude.
There may be monetary/profitable features to the site, but not to the forums portion that I have seen.

Re: Womans Perspective

Posted: Sun Aug 16, 2020 8:38 am
by LeRoastBeef
Where is this, 'there' that you speak of?

Is this another site? Could you pm me the details, lostsheep, if you're not allowed to post here.

I'm like an information hover with all this stuff. Much love.