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Hi Guy's
I just got my ams 700 ms series pump implanted on Sept 3th and am in the recovery
stage right now. The process went very well and I have a positive feeling moving forward.
It's pretty cool to feel to have something in my pants that's stiffer then anything in years.
Considering it is not pumped up yet I sense good things are to come, I've waited around
16 years and really wished I know about this eariler in life. I'm lucky @ 58yrd old to have
this installed as ED hit me around 42yrs old. My wife and I are still together and are more
like roommates now a days. Sadly when I had the implant done I did'nt even mention it and
had a friend drive me to the appointment. I'm going to mention the surprise to her once I
get the blessing from the doctor... Anyone have any idea how in the hell to start enjoy sex
with there spouse? God it's scary in a way to think about this as failure was there for so many
year's. zi'm trying to say positive but am so lost in other way's ....thanks for the support..

Wow, that really will be a surprise!

Are you not at home for the recovery period?

I would not be so concerned about how to start an intimate sexual relationship when she was not part of this process, but rather, consider exploring, with a professional therapist, why you chose not to include her throughout all of the planning and subsequent surgery and ask why she would want to have sex with you now.