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I have had an erection problem for about a year and a half.
People who have seen my posts know. My questions are quick and easy.

1st time a few days ago - Increased desire for sex. Increased libido. I called a girl and my erection was very good, even excellent. We had sex with a condom, which was quite tight but even that didn't take off my erection. I finished quickly because I was afraid of losing it. I got aroused a second time and my erection was quite good but I finished with oral work.

2nd time a few days ago - without a strong desire, sex with a girl again, I lost my erection from time to time and came back quickly and so on ....

I don't have an identified venous leak, but sometimes I think about it.
My question is - is it possible with a venous leak to maintain a full erection with a blue head full of blood for 10 minutes in 3 different positions? Do not fade when changing posture and walking.

And the next day to have a weak erection, which fades and comes back again.
I used to think that because of a tight girl my erection disappears, but after the tight condom, which squeezed me much more, it doesn't make sense.

When you worry about loosing your erection, you probably will. A venous leak usually does not come and go.

Also, distractions and time constraints have a deleterious effect on errections.

You don't say if you had foreplay or it your encounters were slam-bam-thank-you-mam. Do you have any issues when you masterbate? Sounds like the previous member has it right. Fear of not performing to the expectations of your partner and outside distractions can bust what would otherwise be a great sex session. You might try watching some porn while engaging in foreplay before penetration. I can only assume from your input that you are not using any kind of ED medications, pumps, injections and do not have a implant. Every man has a fizzle from time to time. Your situation sounds to me like you just need to slow down a bit, put some thought into your before, during and after sex sessions and you just might be surprised what happens.