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One of my golfing buddies is recently divorced and is starting to date again. He is also "blessed' with a very large penis. He recently told me over a few beers that the two women he's slept with recently commented that sex was uncomfortable for them because his penis was too big.

Has any others had women comment on their size. Either that they were too large or too small? Since Im average I never hd that problem

Ship,

Yeah that can be a problem! When I was using a VED Pump for erections, that bad boy could really add GIRTH to the final product. Like 1/2" added .. maybe more. And, the thing with going BIG is that your partner is used to one size and after a while they become used to that size and when bigger suddenly comes along it might be just too much. Missus did complain and I had to use a medium penile sleeve to keep it to manageable diameters -- really worked nice.

With Trimix it solved the Goldilocks Dilemma of Too Big .. Too small .. Just Right. Also I think the too hot .. too cold .. just right theme was a metaphor for this very situation in the original story, dontcha think?

SO get going with that pump!

J

I still use my pump and Osbon tension band between Trimix intercourse. The combination increases my girth by about 1/2 inch. Unfortunately the tension band causes numbness after ten minutes, but I have noticed my wife orgasms more frequently without requiring oral when I use the pumped dick. Though she has never commented directly that my penis was thicker, she has asked "where did that come from?" on several occasions.

Before I had ED, my girth was good size and girth is more important than length in satisfying a partner.

I'm told that technique is more important than anything. Just saying.

I agree with Antelope. Its technique. Also I read that a woman only has feeling in the first 4" of her vagina. I always found that women have better orgasms from oral sex

I agree that technique is important but a thick penis is more desireable than a thin one and length isn't important because, as you say, the first few inches of the vagina are the most stimulating for sex. Oral sex gives my wife very intense orgasms. She didn't have as intense orgasms with penis-vagina sex.

My wife comments that what matters the most is rigidity. The harder it is the more pleasure she gets. Lengthwise or girthwise she couldn't say anything definite. All what matters to her is to have it iron hard.
Speaking of oral she is not fond of it, at least not that is something that causes her to orgasm. She doesn't mind it but only as a foreplay; and if skipped she wouldn't complain.
So I guess all this comes to the intensity. Some are OK with the soft tong touch while others need a hard press, but never did I hear from a woman complaining that the penis is not entering deep enough. I have an average size though.
I've heard complains from some other women about "too big" in case of anal, but I guss this is a "special case"...

My wife says that she like it wood hard but thick also. Too long is disturbing her.
She can get very strong orgasm by oral also.

In both cases to get a strong orgasm she needs to be on full control of the movements.

Vlad

It is the age old question we have heard all our lives and we only know how it is with penis length girth and size the good lord
Gave us. If bigger is better than where does that leave the rest of the population. If smaller is not good then why do the women stay and dies the man always feel inadequate? I know one thing its great to have this website to be able to talk about it because most of us would never talk face to face so honestly and openly. Some very brave men have shared great informative photos of their implants injection and even a how too clinic on making constriction bands. To sum it all up we live with and function with what we have.. we may change it a little in eays with devices but for the most part after you reach about 16 yrs of age you have got all the size you are gonna get. No I am not hung nor am I lacking I fall right in the middle of average territory. It aint nothing to really write home about but I' ve figured out how to use it to satisfy my wife and it brings me a whole lot of pleasure too!! But just like most men, I have coveted the fact of wishing I had a bigger one in all areas.

S