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Hi! I don't know why but I have difficutis in getting erection. My erousal level is so low, I need very long and calm foreplay and just after long time erection can come. But if I have some enxiety - nothing will be. So I try to find medicine which can help me to get hard. All PDE5 doesn't not help with it. They just impove erection which you achieve. I need something which can kick my dick even for couple of minuts, even if I dont have arrousal for erection. When I became erect I have good erection and dont have any problem to maintain it. But how to get erection in the beginning? Of caurse there is injections but is is so horrible... Can't stand to inject needle to my dick and it is fiils like annatural erection like somebody put stick inside.
Maybe some pills, gel, cream can make erection even without enough desire?
P.S. I am on NOFAP about 1 year. Not help me much. Physically completely healthy. Testosterone on a high level.
30 y.o.

My only suggestion is to try using a bit less juice when you inject. With the proper dose mine feels natural. I do use a silicone novelty/sex shop cock ring behind the boys that seems to allow me to use a little less juice.
Good luck.

bldoink wrote:My only suggestion is to try using a bit less juice when you inject. With the proper dose mine feels natural. I do use a silicone novelty/sex shop cock ring behind the boys that seems to allow me to use a little less juice.
Good luck.

bldoink, I see that you commonly promote the use of cock rings. just had a curious question, do you use these primarily for pleasure, or do you have any form of venous leakage that is minimized or suppressed by the rings?

abhishek26 wrote:bldoink, I see that you commonly promote the use of cock rings. just had a curious question, do you use these primarily for pleasure, or do you have any form of venous leakage that is minimized or suppressed by the rings?

Yes, I use them for pleasure. Anything that help adds to the pleasure. I don't know that I have any VL, if I do. I do find that the "right" ring does allow for a significantly lower does of injection juice. This reduces the chance of any alprostadil pain. I wear a ring around the shaft behind the boys. That's the one that boots the effect of the injection. It's not so tight that it can't be easily removed while erect. I wear a smaller one around the boys because the wife likes the way it packages them. So I guess that one is just for pleasure.

Vlad10 wrote:Hi! I don't know why but I have difficutis in getting erection. My erousal level is so low, I need very long and calm foreplay and just after long time erection can come. But if I have some enxiety - nothing will be. [...]

Anxiety is a normal biological response but it is also a major erection killer.

Adrenaline and other chemicals block peripheral blood circulation, so that you get more blood where it is needed in stressful situations: heart, lungs, muscles.

You just need to control your anxiety levels. Finding the right partner is essential, of course. Step#2 is information: the more you know about sex and ED, the less stressful it will be.

I suggest you go see a doctor (urologist) and ask him about Seredyn and alpha blockers: these treatments were very helpful in my case (coital anxiety) and I still use them today.

I'd recommend to avoid injections unless you're willing to run the risk of developing Peyronie's Disease. Trust me, you don't want to add this to the list of things to fix.

Control over anxiety is all that's needed. You said it man, you need calm and long foreplay. That should be the norm. Guys need intimacy but this society treats us as performance horses or something. It gaslights us to believe that we're somehow to blame if we're not performing well under unnatural conditions. The truth is that not performing well under unnatural conditions is actually the natural thing to happen.

Hearth,
Most of what you said has been proven wrong on this website, unless you are young. I am 77 and developed Peyronie's in my 60's trying to have sex with an inadequate erection . I developed a significant bend and hour glassing from scar tissue at the base of my penis. Trying to force a partial erection does damage. I started TRT injections and used penal therapy doing kegels and vacuum erection exercises. I use a quadmix injection and inject just below the penis head to avoid where the scare tissue damage happen before I started injections. The hour glassing has disappeared and my erection is mostly straight. I have no new scar tissue where I am injecting. I have been doing weekly injections with penetrative sex for over 2 years.

Vlad10
I quote:
"I use a quadmix injection and inject just below the penis head to avoid where the scare tissue damage happen before I started injections. "
Trying to educate myself. Do you think injecting yourself close to the Penis head among the other raiment help you from scaring more? Do scarring from the old injections ever disapear?
Thanks

joeban,
If you read the discussion on scaring, you will see some men inject for years without any evidence of physical damage. I started injecting on 5/15/18 and see no evidence of new damage from injecting. The scar tissue that developed near the base of my cock before injections is still very obvious but causes no pain or concern. I think the reason some men develop scar tissue has to do with engaging in penetrative sex without adequate stiffness and the penis buckles trying to force it in. Our age is the issue and our body was designed to expire. our parts have an expiration date on them. At 77 even with everything I do right, I still need a cock ring to maintain a usable erection for vaginal sex. The Xialla cock ring works great for me and I always use it. What Hearth was talking about only applies to young men who still have the penis health to obtain a normal erection but have a mental block.