Dispatch from the front - a live fire exercise (out of the lab and into the field)
Posted: Mon Dec 13, 2021 3:10 pm
A few mos ago I had a brief sexual opportunity (in a now-ended long distance relationship) too early on in my ED experience. I was taking the drugs (viagara) wrong and nothing else was in use.
Over the weekend I had a better chance to figure out how much better equipped I am in a new but promising relationship, having done so much research in the wake of that failure. Upshot: still a work in progress!
I had a date where sex was seeming pretty likely so I took PT-141 (20 units) at 2pm and then Cialis (20mg) around dinner. Raw oysters were also on the menu. And I had many supplements (as I do every day) around 2pm as well. I had sex successfully but it was only barely so (separately, she was fully satisfied by my other exploits). I think next time I'll do 30 units of PT-141 and probably get more L-arginine in play closer to showtime.
The next night was Cialis only. Did not work enough. We tried a couple other things, even though I'm pretty green with them. Silicone ring (Adorime) with separate scrotum strap didn't really do much. 10 units of TriMix (did nearly nothing). Penis pump with ring (need to practice this on my own) - I'm all thumbs. It's a rec Adorime pump with the blue stretchy silicone rings which I'll try to link here later (mentioned here a few times). I may have to upgrade to the real deal if the pump is to be used and/or practice on my own.
This morning, I had pretty amazing morning wood which only got stronger as I stimulated her. One interesting thing that happened is in the prep for penetration, she was stimulating me all kinds of ways, including lube, and my erection dissipated too much. Surprisingly, her touches of all kinds, which nonetheless felt absolutely amazing, seemed to have a counterproductive effect. Is this... pscyhogenic ED, or maybe it's just that morning wood, in my experience, has its own transient qualities?
My new girlfriend is just friggin' awesome (in and out of the bedroom, and I could wax incredibly here on that but that's not the point of the post!). Incredibly understanding, very GGG (good giving and game). We'll be making this all work better and better.
Over the weekend I had a better chance to figure out how much better equipped I am in a new but promising relationship, having done so much research in the wake of that failure. Upshot: still a work in progress!
I had a date where sex was seeming pretty likely so I took PT-141 (20 units) at 2pm and then Cialis (20mg) around dinner. Raw oysters were also on the menu. And I had many supplements (as I do every day) around 2pm as well. I had sex successfully but it was only barely so (separately, she was fully satisfied by my other exploits). I think next time I'll do 30 units of PT-141 and probably get more L-arginine in play closer to showtime.
The next night was Cialis only. Did not work enough. We tried a couple other things, even though I'm pretty green with them. Silicone ring (Adorime) with separate scrotum strap didn't really do much. 10 units of TriMix (did nearly nothing). Penis pump with ring (need to practice this on my own) - I'm all thumbs. It's a rec Adorime pump with the blue stretchy silicone rings which I'll try to link here later (mentioned here a few times). I may have to upgrade to the real deal if the pump is to be used and/or practice on my own.
This morning, I had pretty amazing morning wood which only got stronger as I stimulated her. One interesting thing that happened is in the prep for penetration, she was stimulating me all kinds of ways, including lube, and my erection dissipated too much. Surprisingly, her touches of all kinds, which nonetheless felt absolutely amazing, seemed to have a counterproductive effect. Is this... pscyhogenic ED, or maybe it's just that morning wood, in my experience, has its own transient qualities?
My new girlfriend is just friggin' awesome (in and out of the bedroom, and I could wax incredibly here on that but that's not the point of the post!). Incredibly understanding, very GGG (good giving and game). We'll be making this all work better and better.