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As many of the older fellows well know our ladies get to the point they dont get aroused and function as before.
Some of them my wife included never had much desire for sex. I have been fortunate enough that she still goes along and participates.

My question is have any of your ladies used arousal creams, and did it work. If so what is it and where did you get it.?

She sees her Dr. In April and is going to ask about it. I know there are pharmaceutical companies that can compound it.

Does it work, or is it like us guys and what works for some doesn't work for others.

Than you.

Excellent post Lil Willy, this is of interest of nearly everyone on this discussion board. I hope you get many positive replies, I will be watching.

Will be interesting to see some replys.
Hopefully something that helps the ladies.

[quote="Lil Willy"]As many of the older fellows well know our ladies get to the point they dont get aroused and function as before.
Some of them my wife included never had much desire for sex. I have been fortunate enough that she still goes along and participates.

My question is have any of your ladies used arousal creams, and did it work. If so what is it and where did you get it.?

She sees her Dr. In April and is going to ask about it. I know there are pharmaceutical companies that can compound it.

Does it work, or is it like us guys and what works for some doesn't work for others.

Than you.[/quote

LW,
Used several -
"Zestra" - works well, BUT very strong smell. Pricey. Was recommended by her gynocologist.
"WoW Max O" - Kind of a strong burning when first applied to the clitoral area.
Anyway, the wife didn't really care for either. We still use lots of lube and a "lube shooter" to get the lube inside where it is needed.
Hope this helps,
stmfttr

Thank you sir.
Hopefully many others will share their experiences.

She does use a stimulating gel. She has several brands and I'm not clear how she chooses when it's time to apply.
In the last month I have seen [G] Female Stimulating Gel and Foria used. We are not in a marijuana legal state so the Foria is the CBD one,

Arousal gels are just one item in her toy box.

Finding one that works for your wife can be a hit and miss project. What works for some women may not work for others.She should experiment by herself with the gel and her favorite vibrator.
I highly recommend that if she doesn't use one already she should find a sex toy like a vibrator that works for her.

Thank you 'Elder Man' older is only in comparison. She has used Foria seemed to work at first. Second bottle I got for her formula must have changed. Did not work. Ordered Foria out of Denver, shipped to house.
If I may ask where did she get the first one you mentioned.

Yes I have bought several different vibrators, most times they dont work for her. That's why I'm looking for the creams.
Hopefully the guys will keep the information coming.

Thank you

The only thing we use is lube when needed. It is the hypo-allergenic clear water based no smell kind.

Fortunately, my wife has found a way to get aroused (and moist) with a toy. It's a toy that sucks on her clit to stimulate oral sex. It has variable suction modes (stronger-weaker) and her new one has vibrations too. The Satisfier is her new toy, although she uses her cheap eBay one more. Most times I'll finger her while she is buzzing. She can have some good orgasms that way.

Thanks for the information. Wife has both of those stimulators, however not much success. Extremely frustrating for both of us. Dont like one way parties.

Hopefully others will chime in with what the ladies are using, for arousal creams, or gels

Thanks

I think the general idea from her doctor is a supplementary prescription for a cream or suppository that contains a very low amount of estrogen. This should make the vaginal tissue a bit more durable so that it resists minor tears & abrasions. Your love life will suffer if she is sore after every encounter. Think of adversion therapy. I think this might end up being something she would only need for a few weeks until nature takes over. My understanding is that is applied a few times during the week. Not just before sex.
Hopefully she'll be candid with the doctor & he/she is skilled enough to see the potential for injury. Estrogen won't likely increase her arousal but the idea is to give her a fair chance to enjoy it. If mommas vj is sore, nobody will be happy.