hardness; difficulty ejaculating

[456pzza]

I had some degree of ED for nearly 40 years, but n the last 10 years or so, it'd gotten progressively worse until pills completely failed. Frequent masturbation during all this time; no penetration during sex since 2007. VED & injections were not happening. AMS 700 LGX implant done on March 21, '22. Cycling began 4-8-22. Hardness when fully inflated less than I expected, & I knew it would be softer than my natural erections.

Girlfriend & I had sex for the first time. Lube was very helpful after trouble inserting. Very satisfying except I could not ejaculate during intercourse. Got close a few times, then it backed off.

Questions: is your penis still kinda soft & somewhat bendable even when fully inflated, as mine is? Has all that masturbation over the years made it difficult to achieve ejaculation during intercourse now that I can finally penetrate again? Or do we just need to give it time & practice?

[456pzza]

Sorry, not 40 years; I've been dealing with ED for just over 20 years.

[Martin6469]

At age 74 I started having trouble crossing the finish line, but it's due to aging. I'm not implanted but use sildenafil and Trimix, which gives perfect erections, but my glans gets less sensitive year by year. Go through the "Anorgasmia" topic starting at the beginning and you will see a lot of suggestions. I find that caffeine and very thin lube improves my situation a little.

[HappyAgain]

I have a titan implant for 9 months and when it’s inflated it’s hard as a rock. No problems achieving orgasm and actually a whole lot more than I can remember. If you’re needing lube maybe you’re not warming up the girlfriend enough? Good luck and maybe stop overthinking things. The mind is a terrible thing.