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Not to sound like a jackass but you're single and broke at 41? Are you serious? You have no life, no job, no money and claiming you're "too old to start building a life". You shouldn't be worried about a sex life when the rest of your life is a mess.

Have you tried Viagra, or injections?

Then go for it dude. Get the best implant surgeon you can and just get it done.

needsomehope wrote:I haven’t had penetrative sex in almost 19 years!!! Peyronies and Venous Leak rendered me completely impotent and now I’m a single 41 year old who’s thinking of ending things ASAP.

You know a functioning penis does NOT define who you are as a man.

I get it, it feels like you have a dead penis, And life is no longer worth it. You are reminded of it multiple times a day.

Most people including those closest to you (family & friends) will never know the misery of your life. With possibly the exception of those of us who are also experiencing ED.

Do seek help, you deserve better.

1. Try to get health insurance that will cover an implant.
2. Get a job and start saving
3. Get creative - maybe try gofundme and post it all over the internet explaining your situation, how ED has ruined your life, led you to this place, and the only hope is a surgery that you can't afford.
4. Date an asexual woman who wants companionship but isn't interested in sex.
5. Become an male escort for men who exclusively bottoms and sucks. Save money, get implant.
6. Get therapy. I'd do this no matter what. Depending on where you live, you might need insurace first.

Just some options.

You have not mentioned what is the reason for your ED and what is your current penile length.

needsomehope wrote:

shrunken_dick wrote:You have not mentioned what is the reason for your ED and what is your current penile length.

ED has been life-long. Had just a handful of decent erections in my entire life. I was WAY harshly circumcised, removing an excess amount of skin. Think that fucked me up.

Now I have Peyronies and venous leak. Unsure of the “cause” of either.

I’m about 6” long and 4.8” girth. That’s when I reeeallly press in with the ruler though. I’ve got a huge fatpad.

You mention you have a huge "fatpad" are you overweight and unfit?