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Hi there
In the uk here

I’ve been to see the therapist which specialises in sexual surrogate therapy

Sounds great but it is very very expensive

It is designed to help alleviate all the issues and anxieties around sex

So I’m am really considering it but I’m thinking it’s going to cost around £10,000 plus

The first 3 sessions which is a module will be 2,400

Each session is 3 hours long and done every 2 weeks so the first module will be done in a month and a half

If it does get me out of my head though is it worth the money ?

I’ve just started taking sertraline 50mg

What would you do in my situation ?
I’m just so lost

Like Step by step

1 Carry on with sertraline to improve my mood
2 Carry on with 5mg daily Cialis in case dating happens
3 book to see a urologist get some tests
4 go through with the expensive surrogate therapy

Thanks for reading

Tom

20 years of hurt though from these issues just makes me think to get an implant and live out the rest of my life man

What is your issue with sex? Are you able to maintain an erection? Those therapy sessions include what?
For that kind of money you should have a private partner of your choice take you through a journey of sexual fantasies.
Have to say I pick #3 to start. A good men's sexual urologist can determine if it's a physical issue. Save that therapy money in case you need an implant.
Feel free to PM me if you prefer.

Hi mate

I’m petrified of failure as it has a profound effect on my mental health

But what if the therapy could literately save my life ?

I’m avoiding dating/sex at the minute and I’m depressed about the situation I’m in.

3XTom,

What is your age and general health and appearance? Is getting dates difficult for you?

Hi

I’m 36 general health is decent

I’m depressed though so that’s why I’ve started the sertraline

I can get dates but scared to go on them as I really worry about sexual performance

I’m just so fed up of how my life is at the minute

I want to move on from this dark cloud

As my cock/brain has let me down for the last 20 years I feel like just getting an implant so I can enjoy the rest of my life with out this hanging over me anymore

Tomtomtom28 wrote:I’m just so fed up of how my life is at the minute

I want to move on from this dark cloud

As my cock/brain has let me down for the last 20 years I feel like just getting an implant so I can enjoy the rest of my life with out this hanging over me anymore

Having ED was depressing for me too. Especially going through it 3 times, initially, when pills failed and when injections failed. I understand your stance, worried that a date that leads to sex will disappoint your date. I'm not sure how dating is now days but if sex comes with every date I want to go back 40 years!
If it's psychological the first thing is to get over the fear of rejection. I assume you date females? A first date shouldn't lead to a romp in the sheets, in my opinion. If you get to know a lady, deep down get to know her, the fear of rejection should dissipate.
Start dating and find a nice lady.

PSSDorAmINormal wrote:

Old Guy wrote: A first date shouldn't lead to a romp in the sheets, in my opinion. If you get to know a lady, deep down get to know her, the fear of rejection should dissipate.
Start dating and find a nice lady.

I'm glad I'm not the only one on here that thinks that.

Thanks. But I know there is still the fear in every man's mind about performance, size and endurance. For some that may be a tiny factor, if any, for some it becomes the main focus unfortunately.

Mate, your cock being 100% hard for intercourse will NOT guarantee you "sexual success".

What i mean is - getting an implant will give you a sure erection, yes. But that doesn't in any way mean your partner will be satisfied... otherwise, everyone who's with a "healthy" man will always be satisfied. And that's not the case.
I'd go as far as to say that pure penetration is not at all "crucial" for a woman's climax.

Not saying all that to put you down, just to point out that an implant will probably not solve your problem at all. If it's a mental problem, seek mental help, not implants.