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There's a thread here about massage visits but I can't find it now. No matter. Notably, not much mention of happy endings. I find that odd considering the audience for this site.

My point is that there are two necessary ingredients to a good erection: mental excitation and blood flow. Seems all the attention is on the latter and none on the former. Let's face it, you may love wifey now more than ever, but that doesn't mean she provides enough mental juice after fifteen years.

So try a commercial massage. See what happens. Every community has Asian massage spas. These are typically good girls just trying to earn a living. So be respectful. They usually give a good massage and once you flip over, it's fun time. Just start out leaving $40 on the table as a tip and NEVER mention money. Might take a couple trips ...chemistry... if you get results that you don't get at home, then you and wifey need to try new horizons.

The whole idea sounds sordid to me. I've never had a massage of any kind - I don't like to be touched, especially by a stranger. And at my age I'm way past caring.

I used to get happy endings in my premarital days, when girlfriend dry spells came about. You're right, the girls are just trying to make a living. We usually had good conversations - I sometimes offered advice on problems they mentioned, and they gave me girlfriend advice. But they aren't necessarily Asian.

I commiserate with the more than a few FT guys in sexless marriages. If I were in one, I'd be visiting the massage girls.

Society is heading in the direction of making sex work acceptable.