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It does not get any better once things start going wrong. I had just started using Sildenafil 20mg when wife divorced me. I was skeptical about dating but had a male FWB. Now I have been getting interested in a co-worker at another property. I had hoped I would be ready when the time came especially since she is younger and could stress my abilities. FWB and I only saw each other every couple weeks since neither of us were as active as we had been and I started taking 100mg. Past couple weeks I started taking more often to see response. Morning wood but nothing special. I was able on my own to get off twice this week but not more and the erection was only firm enough for good penetration the 1st time. 2nd time would have been firm enough with my ex as she was loose. 3rd time not firm enough and did not get off even with some simultaneous prostate stimulation. I can not lead a person on only to disappoint them. I would probably need TRT to be more enthusiastic and something more serious like injections for a good time in bed with her.
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Al1962 wrote:It does not get any better once things start going wrong. I had just started using Sildenafil 20mg when wife divorced me. I was skeptical about dating but had a male FWB. Now I have been getting interested in a co-worker at another property. I had hoped I would be ready when the time came especially since she is younger and could stress my abilities. FWB and I only saw each other every couple weeks since neither of us were as active as we had been and I started taking 100mg. Past couple weeks I started taking more often to see response. Morning wood but nothing special. I was able on my own to get off twice this week but not more and the erection was only firm enough for good penetration the 1st time. 2nd time would have been firm enough with my ex as she was loose. 3rd time not firm enough and did not get off even with some simultaneous prostate stimulation. I can not lead a person on only to disappoint them. I would probably need TRT to be more enthusiastic and something more serious like injections for a good time in bed with her.
This was the short version.
Thank you.

Don't lead her on, then. Give her orgasms before penetration. Get fulfilling your promises before getting your own orgasms.

I have found that cunnilingus gets a woman loosened up very well and well-lubricated, too. A couple of orgasms relaxes her vaginal sphincter and vaginal walls.

Lost Sheep: I agree. In that respect most of the problem then is in my mind. I can do as you suggest. I just can't go barn storming and sweep her off her feet.

Al1962 wrote:Lost Sheep: I agree. In that respect most of the problem then is in my mind. I can do as you suggest. I just can't go barn storming and sweep her off her feet.

I think you can, depending on what you mean by "barnstorming". Or, if you want to.

Second point first. Different women like different approaches. Changing up your approach with one on different days can be entertaining, as well.

First point: "Barnstorming." Some women like a slow buildup of foreplay and intrigue. Some women like to do the barnstorming instead.

I guess both my points have a great deal of ovelap. Anyhow, with a more reliable, durable erection you can concentrate on your technique better. Good hunting.