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Sometimes I'm really depressed and anxious because of ED, has anyone had a good relationship or marriage, would like to hear everyone's opinion

I am 25 years old now, because of venous leak ED, I dare not have a girlfriend, I can only rely on Viagra, but I am really scared inside

if you find a girl who loves you yes you can have a relationship and a marriage, as soon as it becomes a serious relationship you have to talk to her about it and explain your problem to her, if she loves you she will stay with you, otherwise she will leave you, and it is better sooner than later , apart from viagra there is cialis and above all levitra which is like the improved viagra, I don't understand why in america we always and only talk about viagra (sildenafil), when levitra (vardenafil) is better

Yes, it is possible.

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Of course it is!
I've dated and lived with several wonderful women in my life.
For most of them, sex was really something they did for me, and were not totally into frequent sex.
I didn't get married until I was 34 (and that has been over 30 years now). My wife is fairly sexual, so if I'd have had ED when we met it might have been a different story. Now at 65, I've had a prostatectomy due to cancer and have no function without pumping or injections. My wife is very understanding and we deal with the situation. Of course I'm able to satisfy her in other ways without using my penis, and she almost likes that more! (Although the injections are working great too!)

If you enter into a good relationship, don't hide your issue. Instead discuss it with her and see if she's willing to experiment. If she can't handle it, you were not meant for each other. I had one GF that could only get off from oral... any penis action with her was for me. If you get good at oral sex on a woman you love, she will be a very happy woman.

I'm sure there are exceptions, but for most women, it's about who you are as a person, not in bed.

I certainly worry about it. It has not stopped me from hoping. I think I worry more for her sake than mine or what do I do. If I get into a relationship I plan to talk about it and if it is an issue deal with it one step at a time with this site for support.

In my experience yes. Haven't tried marriage through

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Refer to my answer on your previous post. It is possible. Lesbians can do it, so can you. And lesbians have no dick at all, lol.

You can manage your situation a bit better as well, just ask yourself, what will you miss or won't have if your dick is completely not working, total impotence? Write them things down, break them in smallest little bits and solve for each one.
Examples:
1.)
Problem: Can't have kids?
Solution: Spend more time with nieces and nephews? Adoption?
2.)
Problem: Will not have partner that I can trust deeply?
Solution: Improving relationships with family? Cultivating existing friendships?
3.) Problem: I will never be best fuck for any woman ever?
Solution: Go to Philippines, find a nice virgin lady with no point of reference?

Write this shit down, answer questions, think of solutions, think of coping mechanisms, focus on solutions, don't dwell on problem too much, that is what makes you depressed, not a good mental state to be in for too long.

But my dude don't give up on sorting your dick out either, try everything and see what works for you, end case is implant and many are really happy with it.

heavendistance wrote:Sometimes I'm really depressed and anxious because of ED, has anyone had a good relationship or marriage, would like to hear everyone's opinion

I am 25 years old now, because of venous leak ED, I dare not have a girlfriend, I can only rely on Viagra, but I am really scared inside

From my experience, no.
Get used to lots of short term relationships. Majority of women can’t deal with it.
I would however keep looking into solutions for yourself and chase money instead of girls.

Short answer is yes. Much more important that having a working dick, is having a steady job and earning a good income. If pornstar sex was the most important thing to women, they would be lining up to marry early 20's studs. I would worry more about having a good career, and just be honest with the woman early on that you have dick issues. This is a good litmus test for the relationship, and it takes the pressure off you worrying if you will be enough for her sexually.