wife's plumbing

[padreest]

Hey Men,
When it come to coital intercourse my wife has total disinterest. In fact she won't even just hand play.
But she had "all" her plumbing removed many years ago. When she was Estregen it was all good. After she stopped due
to the cancer scare she died in that realm. How many of member wives have ovaries and uteros removed and experience some of this
problem? Most of you guys sound prtty active.

[Anonymous2]

Hi Padrest, sorry just the uteros removed, kept the rest, but if the scare has gone why is she not back on Estregen and get her back in the saddle, mine necer fell off, couldent wait forthe 6 weeks to come quick enough, that was back in 99, she still like a dabble when ever we can, sorry if its not much help.
Good Luck
HOHARD

[dagobx]

Yeah, my first wife had "the operation" in the early '80's but went right on the estrogen. After we divorced, she stopped the estrogen & fell into the slumps sexually. She never remarried (and neither did I) so from time to time we manage to "get together". Now she's in her 60's & have no interest in sex. She has been talking about going back on estrogen for other reasons & I have encouraged her to do it - both for the other benefits & the sexual ones. If she does, I'll have to see what happens in the sex department.

[radiodec]

My wife had a total histerectomy ages back and was on estrogen for quite a while. She has been off for quite a while now, too. Her interest in sex has been up, down, and sideways during that time but this was with and without the estrogen. Very bad childhood and upbringing contributing to ambivalence toward sex.

Currently things are going well, but I attribute that to her finally having gotten the old demons subdued. Since I got the implant and can work at arousing her and delivering a nice intimate experience she has become insatiable. Started with the courting before I even got the implant and by the time I finally got it, she was already anxious for me to be healed. We cheated and started using the implant 2 weeks early and haven't slowed down. She does use the estrogen vaginal creme to help keep things soft and pliable, but that is only twice a week.

If the psychology is right, I find that a lot of foreplay and good manual stimulation (of her) will get her in the mood for some fun. Without hormones to drive things, the sex has to be exciting or the desire drops rapidly. Boredom is bad.

Implant has been great!

Dave

[Dave92014]

My wife has used hormone replacement since menopause about 15 years ago, but uses the "bioidentical" pills which are compounded by a compounding pharmacy. Our family doc does blood tests to measure levels and prescribes the compunding levels that help her but have minimal chance of causing cancer. Our doctor thinks this method is much safer than the pills created from horse urine. Then about 8 years ago our doctor started her on monthly testosterone injections with some vitamin B-12 included in them. These really improved her desire for normal sex. And when she gets close to the time for the next injection, she notices the difference. You need a doctor who is well versed in how to measure the testosterone levels and prescribe the right dose to get the effect without causing her to grow a beard

My wife had a hysterectomy 18 months ago and nothing as decreased as far a sex desire.