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I have long advocated that guys use adjustable cock rings to help maintain blood in the penis so that a partial erection can turn into a full erection. One of the guys from Frank Talk emailed me recently with a great recommendation for a different kind of cock ring. Take a look at this link:
http://www.shopwiki.com/Mega+Stretch+Cock+Ring
There is a whole world of super stretch cock rings. This member wears one of these really stretchy rings around the base of his cock and balls combined. He has found disasters with the nonadjustable steel and hard-material cock rings. Once the cock is engorged, it can be very difficult to remove a hard ring. These super stretch rings come in all sizes and shapes. One of these rings can go around your cock, your balls, both, or even just the head of your cock. The rings are very comfortable. They can come in clear rubber, so they are discreet if you don't want to look like you're wearing sex jewelry! Anywhere you put it, as long as it restricts blood flow, it will help achieve and maintain an erection.
They are also very cheap! Let me know if you try them.
Thanks
Paul

Ok, was very interested in your post and ordered myself some of the devices. Have not tried them yet! Also read a lot about the concerns (too tight, leaving on too long, etc.), but they all seem workable. They arrived yesterday and I'm looking forward to trying this week with the wife.

Question, from your experience, does it enhance, dampen, or have no affect on the orgasm? Bringing myself to orgasm during IC is a challenge for me. I'm hoping the prolonged erection will help. Wondering about the feel of the orgasm.

- Tom

I think any new sensation will help with orgasm. Concentrate on what you're feeling and it should help. Also, the stimulation of testicles will enhance everything.
Are you taking time off - a day or two - between jacking off and sex? I assume you've thought of that, but just checking.
The lassoo style cock rings definitely help since they keep the erection even firmer. I've found those to be the best for sex.
Paul

Tried it and it works awesomely. Was able to keep the erection until done, and it certainly took the stress out of staying hard. A new tool in my toobox.

Thanks for the insight!

hiya guys -

1- clarifiction on applying hard cock ring - have to make sure it is big enough to go around base of balls as well not just the cock - put if over cock and then pull one ball at a time through the ring and then pull balls up and ring fits at base of balls to hold the blood in the cock - once you have done the dirty deed - the cock starts to become flaccid ( unless you are supplementing it with meds) and then you do a reverse - one ball and then the next and then pull off the cock - gay guys have been using these things for years !!

2- alternative to a stretchy cock ring is the leather snap cock ring - just like a heavy metal leather studded wrist band but made to fit your wedding tackle. They should be available in the porn / sex shops or even those online - if you are travelling to another larger town ( for privacy) you could drop into a gay sex shop and see a wall full of toys to keep mr. happy hard and ready to do his job.

the only concern I have is making sure it is the right size - and do keep in mind that sexual foreplay can include your spouse / partner apply the rings, whatever so it is a joint effort which would help reduce stress -

enjoy

hugs
BRONSON

-P.S. this is my first posting at this site - if I have done anything wrong please do tell me - thanks

The one I use is the super stretch kind (as recommended in this thread), and I have no issues taking it off when I'm done. In addition, I don't think I have any desire to try the medal kind. With the RP cutting out some of my sex components, I really don't want to chance damaging the others . I am thinking about trying the kind that snap on though.

Regarding having your partner put them on/off, don't know if I trust my wife with putting on the super stretch kind; one slip and that will hurt

Bottom line though, this has been a great tool for me in both play and keeping the stiffy. I recommend anyone with ED to give this a try.

- Tom

Bronson,
LOL - no, nothing you said was inappropriate. This is Frank talk, after all, and I firmly believe men in our culture need a lot of frankness and openness about the whole topic of sex in general.

For many guys who get a partial erection, any cock ring will help get to to a usable firmness. For most PCa guys starting out, the adjustable cock rings are less intimidating. But you're right, lots of guys use the hard rings for fun and the extra firmness.

I you guys look at the videos on the Injections page - the videos under Intraurethral Trimix, one of the models shows exactly how to put on the leather cock ring. It also works at holding in just a bit more blood.

Thanks for joining and keep posting.
Paul

Paul -
Thank you -
In my sexual heyday I was very prolific and (partly because of being disowned by family) did a heck of a lot of sexual exploring - this was before the unfortunate advent of AIDS - and played around with various toys and enhancements. I became well versed in how you can achieve a lot of satisfaction and release even if mr. happy is too tired to come out and play.

One thing I find ( other than the fact that the brain is the biggest sexual organ) you can train yourself (and partner/wife) to become around when it comes to playtime - so "what are we gonna do tonight honey?" ends up with both of you salivating as you open up your box or bag of tricks !

One kinky gay site pushes the boundaries of sexual experimentation but when viewed as part of penile rehabilitation for prostate cancer survivors - it offers a variety of items that may turn your crank or make you shake your head in disbelief. My main thought on penile rehabilitation ( aka willie wehab - on a more conservative site) is to try to be as complete a man as you can be.

http://usastore.recon.com/store/usa/cock-ball-toys

Since a lot of these are designed for younger men and more active ( no insult intended - I am happy with once or twice a week compared to XXX a week when in my 20's), they should be very durable and easy to clean and maintain (and no, I am not a spokesman - this is just how I talk).
hugs
BRONSON
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jan 8, 2010 - got Post Surgery Biopsy: pT3a- gleason 7 - extraprostatic extension - perineural invasion - prostate weight - 34.1gm - see doc in three months for next PSA
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spellcheck -argh -
last post - was supposed to read as - " ... you can train yourself (and partner/wife) to become aroused ... "
hugs
BRONSON

Paul-Mod wrote:I have long advocated that guys use adjustable cock rings to help maintain blood in the penis so that a partial erection can turn into a full erection. One of the guys from Frank Talk emailed me recently with a great recommendation for a different kind of cock ring. Take a look at this link:
http://www.shopwiki.com/Mega+Stretch+Cock+Ring
There is a whole world of super stretch cock rings. This member wears one of these really stretchy rings around the base of his cock and balls combined. He has found disasters with the nonadjustable steel and hard-material cock rings. Once the cock is engorged, it can be very difficult to remove a hard ring. These super stretch rings come in all sizes and shapes. One of these rings can go around your cock, your balls, both, or even just the head of your cock. The rings are very comfortable. They can come in clear rubber, so they are discreet if you don't want to look like you're wearing sex jewelry! Anywhere you put it, as long as it restricts blood flow, it will help achieve and maintain an erection.
They are also very cheap! Let me know if you try them.
Thanks
Paul

I’m new to pumping and am looking for a stretchy cock ring. I’ve been looking on one of the sites mentioned on this forum and came across one called the NUTTSLING and also the SPLITSLING. Has anyone tried one of these? I’m interested in purchasing one but would like to hear if anyone has tried them and would you recommend it. I’ve been using a VED for the past 3 months I’m looking for more stimulation. Thanks for your help.