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Had my phone consultation with a hypnotist tonight who specializes in male issues, including erectile dysfunction. Seemed to be legit about what he is capable of achieving. He told me there is no way to enlarge the penis thru hypno despite all the videos purporting that it's possible, which is definitely disappointing to know. But he's been successful with men overcoming anxiety over sexual inadequacy and not feeling masculine, which is what I am struggling with. Couldn't tell me how long it would take to get my erections back but he has had much success with other men before. Was such a thrill to talk about these things out loud for the first time. I told him how I don't feel like a man, which was something that's bothered me since puberty. Felt a weight lift from me when I said it. Didn't want it to end tbh but it's gone cost a fortune for me to continue. Asked how many sessions it takes on average for erections to come back & he said 6-8 but he's done it in only one before. Problem is I've had 10 years of limp dick to overcome so can't expect that to change overnight. He said it sincerely enough that I know it's the truth. But idk how I can afford him even tho it's worth every penny to me. I'm looking into financing so holding out hope there will be a way to make it happen for me. I want a sex life so bad before I'm too old to have one

So you think you ED is mostly mental ?

What have you tried so far? Pills? Injections? I have very little belief that any hypnotherapy will cure ED. If you've suffered that long I think your best bet would be to schedule an appointment with a men's sexual health urologist.

I suffered from sexual performance anxiety for many years, a few tips:

a) Anxiety is a normal biological reaction, but it may get in the way of sex. You need to find ways to control your anxiety levels. In my case, a natural supplement called Seredyn was extremely helpful.

b) Read as much as you can on the subject, esp. the books of American urologist Tom F. Lue. The more you know about sex, the less stressful it will be.

c) Go see a urologist. Even if your problem is psychogenic, a urologist will be able to help you.

d) When I was battling my sexual performance anxiety, I used to avoid sex for a few weeks whenever I had a negative experience. This allowed me to clear my mind and decrease my anxiety levels.

Flavio wrote:I suffered from sexual performance anxiety for many years, a few tips:

a) Anxiety is a normal biological reaction, but it may get in the way of sex. You need to find ways to control your anxiety levels. In my case, a natural supplement called Seredyn was extremely helpful.

b) Read as much as you can on the subject, esp. the books of American urologist Tom F. Lue. The more you know about sex, the less stressful it will be.

c) Go see a urologist. Even if your problem is psychogenic, a urologist will be able to help you.

d) When I was battling my sexual performance anxiety, I used to avoid sex for a few weeks whenever I had a negative experience. This allowed me to clear my mind and decrease my anxiety levels.

hey there,
looks like seredyn is not avalilable in europe, any idea on how to get my hands on it

timduncan wrote: hey there,
looks like seredyn is not avalilable in europe, any idea on how to get my hands on it

You can get it on bioneurix.com

If they don't ship to your country, you'll have to find an American forwarder.

Please remain open to the idea that instead of anxiety and feelings of inadequacy causing your ED, you might have ED and THAT is causing anxiety and feelings of inadequacy.

In that case the treatment is very clear. Try the different prescription ED meds (Viagra, Levitra, Cialis, so forth), try a VED and constriction ring, try shots, and if none of that works talk with an implant surgeon.

Some men try all of those options. Some men decide that some of them aren’t for them. (I’m not interested in VED with constriction rings for example. Some others don’t want to try shots.)