Hi guys.. I'm 54 years old. Last month in february, my girlfriend decided to break up with me and for 2 solid weeks therewafter I suffered emotionally like crazy. As a result my libido fell dramatically. I struggle to get sexually aroused now.
I recently tested for my testosterone. Below are the results:
Testosterone: 484
Free testosterone: 13.1
Prostate-Specific Ag: 2.1
As a side note, I've always had low testosterone. I've never had it this high before. Anyway I hope someone can tell me if theres an association between breaking up with a girl and libido and what can be done about it.
Breakup with my girlfriend reduced my libido - help!
Re: Breakup with my girlfriend reduced my libido - help!
That's a normal reaction: our emotional life has a tremendous impact on sex drive and performance.
When I was battling my psychogenic ED, I had a very sensible technique: I used to avoid sex for weeks after a negative experience, just to decrease my stress levels and break the cycle of anxiety.
When I was battling my psychogenic ED, I had a very sensible technique: I used to avoid sex for weeks after a negative experience, just to decrease my stress levels and break the cycle of anxiety.
Age 40. Psychogenic ED for over 20 years. Current regimen: Udenafil 200 mg, oral phentolamine mesylate 40 mg, Seredyn.
Re: Breakup with my girlfriend reduced my libido - help!
macoza,
As with everything - check with your Dr before doing anything to know what's best for you.
I've used PT-141 many times and its a great libido enhancer. It's a SubQ injectable - you'll want to Google that if you don't know what that is. It is very low risk since it goes just under the skin. I take with low dose Ondansetron (Zofran) to avoid any nausea. Oddly it takes about 6-8 hours before it kicks in completely, but feel the effect for 18+ hours.
More recently, I found a THC/CBD product that works really really well and it's effect is very predictable. Starts at about 20 minutes with 80% at about 45 minutes. It lasts around 6-8 hours. Following the "start low, go slow" mantra, I started at 3 fluid ounces which is 6mg of both THC and CBD (25mg per can), but I'm new at this. It felt like 2 or 3 shots, relaxing, and also increased libido. Below is a URL for the 25mg dose of the product. Be aware that the product is sold in other doses.
https://greenlightdispensary.com/rock-port-menu/?geo-redirected=true&dtche%5Bproduct%5D=blackberry-coconut-sparkling-1-1-h2o-25mg
- Chuck
As with everything - check with your Dr before doing anything to know what's best for you.
I've used PT-141 many times and its a great libido enhancer. It's a SubQ injectable - you'll want to Google that if you don't know what that is. It is very low risk since it goes just under the skin. I take with low dose Ondansetron (Zofran) to avoid any nausea. Oddly it takes about 6-8 hours before it kicks in completely, but feel the effect for 18+ hours.
More recently, I found a THC/CBD product that works really really well and it's effect is very predictable. Starts at about 20 minutes with 80% at about 45 minutes. It lasts around 6-8 hours. Following the "start low, go slow" mantra, I started at 3 fluid ounces which is 6mg of both THC and CBD (25mg per can), but I'm new at this. It felt like 2 or 3 shots, relaxing, and also increased libido. Below is a URL for the 25mg dose of the product. Be aware that the product is sold in other doses.
https://greenlightdispensary.com/rock-port-menu/?geo-redirected=true&dtche%5Bproduct%5D=blackberry-coconut-sparkling-1-1-h2o-25mg
- Chuck
macoza wrote:Hi guys.. I'm 54 years old. Last month in Februarys, my girlfriend decided to break up with me and for 2 solid weeks thereafter I suffered emotionally like crazy. As a result my libido fell dramatically. I struggle to get sexually aroused now.
Feb 2025 - 58 yo, 38 with greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", at 90+% inflated L: 6.5" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, no discomfort @ ? mos, felt like 'new normal' @ ? mos
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", at 90+% inflated L: 6.5" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, no discomfort @ ? mos, felt like 'new normal' @ ? mos
Re: Breakup with my girlfriend reduced my libido - help!
I have ordered the Mount Everest Pill, which has Cialis/Oxytocin/PT-141 in it. I have used PT 141 before and it does make you super horny. I will review once received and sampled.
Breaking up is a horrible thing, even when you initiate. Give yourself some time Guy!
Breaking up is a horrible thing, even when you initiate. Give yourself some time Guy!
Re: Breakup with my girlfriend reduced my libido - help!
Budward,
Be anxious to hear how it works !
- Chuck
Be anxious to hear how it works !
- Chuck
Budward wrote:I will review once received and sampled.
Feb 2025 - 58 yo, 38 with greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", at 90+% inflated L: 6.5" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, no discomfort @ ? mos, felt like 'new normal' @ ? mos
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", at 90+% inflated L: 6.5" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, no discomfort @ ? mos, felt like 'new normal' @ ? mos
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Re: Breakup with my girlfriend reduced my libido - help!
Budward wrote:I have ordered the Mount Everest Pill, which has Cialis/Oxytocin/PT-141 in it. I have used PT 141 before and it does make you super horny. I will review once received and sampled.
Breaking up is a horrible thing, even when you initiate. Give yourself some time Guy!
I ordered this same combo pill (Cialis/oxytocin/pt141) compounded from a different pharmacy, but to my surprise the medication arrived unrefrigerated. As far as I know PT141 needs to be refrigerated or it will begin to break down. I'm going to stick with pt141 injections which have been amazing for me
Early 30s with ED from jelqing. Implant by Dr Eid on 24 June 2021 with a Titan 24cm with +1cm RTE on one side and -1cm cut off on the other side
Aug 2024 revision to AMS CX 24cm + 2rte
My journal: viewtopic.php?t=17202
Aug 2024 revision to AMS CX 24cm + 2rte
My journal: viewtopic.php?t=17202
Re: Breakup with my girlfriend reduced my libido - help!
wolfpacker wrote:Budward wrote:I have ordered the Mount Everest Pill, which has Cialis/Oxytocin/PT-141 in it. I have used PT 141 before and it does make you super horny. I will review once received and sampled.
Breaking up is a horrible thing, even when you initiate. Give yourself some time Guy!
I ordered this same combo pill (Cialis/oxytocin/pt141) compounded from a different pharmacy, but to my surprise the medication arrived unrefrigerated. As far as I know PT141 needs to be refrigerated or it will begin to break down. I'm going to stick with pt141 injections which have been amazing for me
I am pretty sure in pill form it has been stabilized like Wegovy which is now sold in pill form. So they must have developed some technology to make this happen. I am pretty excited to see what happens with these pills. With my 60lb weight loss and my VED work I think I have rejuvenated my penis back 30 or more years.
I am pretty sure that Nuimage is the developer of this, but not 100%.
I am interested to see what the Oxytocin will do. Supposedly it creates real closeness in the act, so more intimacy is always good.
You are right, PT 141 makes you so horny you could screw a doorknob.

I am hoping for real performance as my wife would prefer me to be on pills rather than inject.
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Re: Breakup with my girlfriend reduced my libido - help!
Macoza: In my pre-marital days I broke up with or had gotten broke up with many girls. I sometimes had your reaction, but there was always another girl around the corner, whom I couldn't see yet, but suddenly there she was. My libido was never affected.
This will also happen to you if you get out there and socialize where the types of women you like are. What you think is low libido is simply grief, which will slowly fade.
You have a great advantage, computer dating, which was far in my single future. I was a bookworm and hiker in those days; I joined a book club and hiking clubs and found myself seldom alone, and from time to time with two girlfriends simultaneously. Once in a while, three!
This will also happen to you if you get out there and socialize where the types of women you like are. What you think is low libido is simply grief, which will slowly fade.
You have a great advantage, computer dating, which was far in my single future. I was a bookworm and hiker in those days; I joined a book club and hiking clubs and found myself seldom alone, and from time to time with two girlfriends simultaneously. Once in a while, three!
Age 79 in 2024. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 30 min.
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Re: Breakup with my girlfriend reduced my libido - help!
your exams if they had the Italian parameters would be good for your age, except for the free one, you should put the reference results to understand where you are, for the libido I don't know if mesterolone is legal in America, if it were it is an excellent drug for the libido
56, DE since 2010, the pills worked at high doses not well, on 01/23/23 titan one touch 22, Dr. Gabriele Antonini, Replacement from titan to cx 21 with ms pump on 04/03/2025, today I am almost 60 years old and have various pathologies, testosterone
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