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Oral sex and urine leakage
Posted: Sun May 11, 2014 3:37 pm
by sabaone
Although it has been close to three years since my prostatectomy, and I generally have no leakage problems, the one I have is an issue. Most times when I get an erection (via injection), I have sporadic drops of urine emanating from my little buddy. This is off-putting regarding oral sex. Has anyone had experience with condoms that do not offend, either by taste or texture, the one providing the oral stimulation? Because of the fear of expressing more urine (not copious amounts though) during an ejaculation, I am also reluctant to proceed as far as ejaculation.
Any help/ideas would be appreciated.
Thanks
Sabaone
Re: Oral sex and urine leakage
Posted: Mon May 12, 2014 8:34 am
by Jollis
Many pharmacies sell flavored condoms. You may want to try them to see if that work with you and your partner!
Re: Oral sex and urine leakage
Posted: Mon May 12, 2014 3:00 pm
by Anonymous2
Jollis wrote:Many pharmacies sell flavored condoms. You may want to try them to see if that work with you and your partner!
Tell you what go buy some and suck on them, they say the strawberry on tastes just like rubber, my wife tried one, one night, she still rags me about it now, she was nearly sick.
It was not good.
Re: Oral sex and urine leakage
Posted: Mon May 12, 2014 3:05 pm
by Anonymous2
Hi Try this see if its helps, kegels very simple exercises, should strengthen up your pelvic floor muscles and the muscle the at the neck of your penis.
Have a look on
www.pegym.com look under exercises your find how to there, you also see how to do reverse kegels, all should help.
Good Luck
Re: Oral sex and urine leakage
Posted: Mon May 12, 2014 3:57 pm
by Andy425
I've been doing Kegels, three times a day every day (or more) for the two years since the RP.
Do they help? I have no idea. It's impossible to know how I would be had I NOT done them for the past two years.
What works or doesn't work for one person doesn't necessarily have anything to do with anyone else. Apparently doctors seems to think that they will PROBABLY help you with urine control -- and, in my opinion, they will especially early on in the recovery. (like the first 6 months or so)
So sure, give them a try. They certainly won't hurt you. And after a while you will kinda do them automatically. I do them in the morning while making coffee and brushing teeth; it's just the right amount of time to do ten sets.
Coming back from lunch I do ten more sets while driving. Then I do ten more at night, although sometimes I forget these or don't bother. For the first 6 months I was doing 15 reps, four times a day. That was a PITA. What I do now is easy.
Do I still need to do them? I have no idea.