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The other day, I kissed my new girlfriend in her kitchen and I got a degree of arousal - some heat and a tightening in my loins (if not an incipient erection in my actual penis). It felt rather good even if I couldn't tell what it actually was.

Once I have (if I get one) an implant, does that subtle response/feedback go away?

Lost Sheep

NO IF YOU STILL HAVE BLOOD FLOW TO THE HEAD AND SHAFT. I STILL GET A THICKER PENIS IN MOST MORNINGS.

Lost Sheep wrote:The other day, I kissed my new girlfriend in her kitchen and I got a degree of arousal - some heat and a tightening in my loins (if not an incipient erection in my actual penis). It felt rather good even if I couldn't tell what it actually was.

Once I have (if I get one) an implant, does that subtle response/feedback go away?

Lost Sheep

Lost sheep you should have taken Little Miss Bopeep back to the bedroom and if you could have progressed to an erection, you will never know now, unless you can do it again.

Think if she can excite you in the kitchen think would could happen in the bedroom, you have to try these thing, you got a spark, now you want the fire lit, its getting the connection going and your away.

NOWHARD

NOWHARD wrote:

Lost Sheep wrote:The other day, I kissed my new girlfriend in her kitchen and I got a degree of arousal - some heat and a tightening in my loins (if not an incipient erection in my actual penis). It felt rather good even if I couldn't tell what it actually was.

Once I have (if I get one) an implant, does that subtle response/feedback go away?

Lost Sheep

Lost sheep you should have taken Little Miss Bopeep back to the bedroom and if you could have progressed to an erection, you will never know now, unless you can do it again.

Think if she can excite you in the kitchen think would could happen in the bedroom, you have to try these thing, you got a spark, now you want the fire lit, its getting the connection going and your away.

NOWHARD

We are taking it slow on purpose.

I did not continue from the kitchen to the bedroom because neither of us has made the decision to have (or to try) sex of any kind yet. That will be decided mutually in a cool, sober (less hormonally influenced) and considered manner.

Besides, I already have an answer to that question (from a recent, prior relationship). I can get an erection sufficient for fellatio, but the erection collapses so quickly, enough coital time for her to have an orgasm isn't possible.

Lost Sheep
p.s. edited to add, "...enough time for her... orgasm" That was a pretty much a lost cause for decades. Enough time (or rigidity) for simple penetration went away several years ago.

Lost Sheep wrote:I can get an erection sufficient for fellatio, but the erection collapses so quickly, enough coital time for her to have an orgasm isn't possible.

That's a main part of the definition of erectile dysfunction: "the inability to achieve or sustain an erection" as long as you want the erection to remain.

Lost Sheep wrote:

NOWHARD wrote:

Lost Sheep wrote:The other day, I kissed my new girlfriend in her kitchen and I got a degree of arousal - some heat and a tightening in my loins (if not an incipient erection in my actual penis). It felt rather good even if I couldn't tell what it actually was.

Once I have (if I get one) an implant, does that subtle response/feedback go away?

Lost Sheep

Lost sheep you should have taken Little Miss Bopeep back to the bedroom and if you could have progressed to an erection, you will never know now, unless you can do it again.

Think if she can excite you in the kitchen think would could happen in the bedroom, you have to try these thing, you got a spark, now you want the fire lit, its getting the connection going and your away.

NOWHARD

We are taking it slow on purpose.

I did not continue from the kitchen to the bedroom because neither of us has made the decision to have (or to try) sex of any kind yet. That will be decided mutually in a cool, sober (less hormonally influenced) and considered manner.

Besides, I already have an answer to that question (from a recent, prior relationship). I can get an erection sufficient for fellatio, but the erection collapses so quickly, enough coital time for her to have an orgasm isn't possible.

Lost Sheep
p.s. edited to add, "...enough time for her... orgasm" That was a pretty much a lost cause for decades. Enough time (or rigidity) for simple penetration went away several years ago.

Poor Lost Sheep, why bother taking it to the bedroom never heard of kitchen sex, where ever you get the urge do it there around the house that is, its called spontaneous sex and its the best sex.

So next time you feel a spark coming on ignite it.

NOWHARD

Lost Sheep, good for you for taking it slow! Romance; we almost forget about the concept, let alone morality, etc.

charlesr wrote:Lost Sheep, good for you for taking it slow! Romance; we almost forget about the concept, let alone morality, etc.

Thanks you charlsr and HowHard for the opportunity to formalize my thinking on this part of my sexuality.

I posted on CraigsList, PlentyOfFish and Match.com for a woman to "help" with my ED.

Match had just a generic "Man seeking Woman" post .

CL and PoF had explicit requests for a woman willing to help with the pre- and post- operative experimentation and rehabilitation I expect will be involved with an implant. A hybrid relationship, part "Friends with Benefits" and part Sexual Surrogacy. My idea was she would help me through the pre-op evaluation stages, enjoying the sex I could manage (which is substantial if she enjoys cunnilingus, manual and/or "toys") and for an equal length of time after whatever cure I got was effected. (So she could enjoy the "fruits" of our labors.) After that we would end the relationship with the option to re-start the relationship as a more conventional/typical Man-Woman relationship with all the usual trimmings if we both wanted.

The rare woman willing to accept those terms has not been found. Realistically, I knew it was a long shot.

Surprisingly, I did get a few responses for this non-romantic but emotionally charged bid. Among the scams and misunderstandings were a few sincere and remarkable women willing to at least consider helping. But after vetting the candidates, I have yet to find one that could detach the emotional ties from the physical acts. No way would I set up another human being for the emotional pain of entering a physical/sexual relationship with a future anticipated to end.

So, I will not take advantage of a woman's hormones or human kindness if I think it has a good chance of hurting her. Period. Even if her eyes are wide open. Call it care-taking if you must, but that is me. I will not put that kind of wear on my soul.

Lost Sheep

Dude, I don’t even know what it is. I am 20 years old and I know for sure that during an erection you should not have lower back pain. Perhaps you have some kind of dysfunction? My classmate had such shit. He could not have sex for a long time because he had problems with erection. They arose because the arteries were clogged with blood clots. He did not want to tell parents and the doctor anything and therefore decided to take up treatment himself and ordered comprar levitra online. This helped and literally two weeks later he was actively having sex. It seems to me that it’s best for you to see a doctor!