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Hi, I'm 32 and hopefully will be married by 35. I had ED and I've used cialis-viagra last few years. I don't like to plan every time before sex and to take medicine rest of my life. What would be the best option for me If I want to get married ?

> relying on medicine and tell to my future wife that I've to take medicine for sex, or
> getting implant and explain to her I'll be boinic rest of my life, or
> no woman will accept an ED husband

Any opinion on these, guys ??

I am 30 years older than you. ED started with me 20 years ago while I was still married. I tried pills and injections and they all stopped working. Planning sex was not fun. Pills were expensive and I would take one and the mood was not right. Injections... you have to get up, do the injection and hope the time is right.

I now have an implant. I lay in bed and if the time is right I pump it up while in bed. If it isn't the right time, I deflate. I can be rock hard in less than a min.

I say, fix the issue now.

Feel free to contact me for more info

If your ED is bad enough to getting worse it may be a relationship saver. They younger you are the more important it may be. She may be a nun for all I know but I would think even they have to have human urges. Best of luck to you.

Do what makes you happy. However, note that at your age you'll certainly outlive your first implant. You may need two or three implant surgeries over your lifespan. I would suggest trying injections for a while and then moving up to the implant if you don't find injections satisfactory.

As for your future wife, she is going to love you for who you are, although sex is certainly very, very important in most new marriages. It is good that you are addressing your ED challenges. Team up with a good urologist and come up with a plan that works for you.

Let us know how it goes.