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Hello new here been having problems for 6 years always thought due to divorce an work stress
I can get hard but have to be on verge of orgasm to be fully hard so sex for wife is quick
Sometimes it goes soft while having sex she can give head get hard but better be ready to go in or I can watch it go down just curious any others in here have this problem an what has helped sometimes I can have normal erections that last but majority is bad an so aggravating yes I drink yes I chew tobacco but always have it was like soon as divorced it happened 42 of age by the way

DD Would need some more information, do you know the cause of your ED? What therapies have you tried and what were the results for each. How long have you had ED? Is it stable or progressing? With that type of info, I am sure you will get a lot of help here.
Cincinnatus

Dear Friend,

My story is identical to yours. I was with my first wife for 20 years and never once failed to have erection with her. True that the last few years we only had sex an average once a month, so having an erection wasn’t a big deal. I started dating a few months after I moved out (I was 44) and had major problem to get hard. I was kind of shocked, because I really liked the young girl I dated. I’m sad to report that I never really regained full erection with any other woman after.

It almost feels like a curse. Started taking pills that worked great for 5 years when I got rectal cancer. The radiation, chemo and surgery completeted my ED and greatly reduced my ejaculate.

With partial successes with pills I got to the point that I had to start using Trimix injections about a year ago which I’m extremely happy with. I’m dating again like crazy and having a very exciting sex life 2-3 times a week.
Explore the possible causes from psychological to hormonal to simple aging or lifestyle causes. And don’t be afraid to use the available treatment options if needed.

All the best.

Ty for your input to cinncinasa I haven’t been to a dr so I can’t tell u what caused it I was just hoping it was psychological an stress an would go away because like I said sometimes it’s like nothing ever happened

New toed thanks for your input yea I thought same thing she done cursed me but I am pretty high strung guy always busy one lil mess up an I am mad so fig stress age money all those keep me stressed I was just curious if was easy fix wit out viagra gonna start trying kegel exercise an get back in gym