Wife Acceptance

[olie20]

I fully understand the wife's attitude. Mine is the same way. She doesn't even like the fact that I have been trying pills, which by the way don't work well at all. I am sure if I brought out a vacuum pump she would go totally nuts. I am considering skipping the shots, pump and anymore pills and going for the implant. If for no other reason the cost of the implant, which is covered by medicare, is much better than paying over $20 per pill, which isn't covered, and most of the time doesn't work well or at all. Good luck James.....

When I was trying the injections, I was telling my wife about the progress (or lack of) She was interested and curious. I finally gave up on the injections.
I then tried the pump and have had pretty good results. I mentioned this to her and even wanted to show her the rings and sleeve, etc. She didn't want to see it. She almost thought it was "creepy." She didn't say this but didn't want to see anything.
I am at an impasse. We don't sleep in the same rooms anymore. I don't know if I should try to go into her room and lay down beside her bed and "pump up" or try to get her primed and go to my room or a nearby bathroom and pump myself up. I have never tried walking with the "pumped up" erection.
She is pretty stressed these days. I would never try to push the issue but I am sure if I could get a natural erection, there would be no problem.
I will say using the pump after taking a Levetra yields a very nice erection.

I really don't know how to handle this. I think, if she could see the erection, she would be ok.

Any thoughts? By the way, I am a type 2 diabetic with very controlled blood suger. But, the damage was done.

Thanks.

[alan46]

I am lucky to have a wife who will help me try anything if I think it will work. We have used the pump as part of foreplay. I guess it's up to the individual woman.

[dtwarren1942]

When I showed my wife how impressive my erection looked inside the vacuum tube, she was more concerned that I would hurt myself. When I showed her how I injected, she said it creeped her out. Now when I walk into the bedroom with a nice hard erection, I am sure she is aware that it did not get that way on its own, but she doesn't care about the means, only the end result. Even when I am unable to orgasm, she is very understanding and we mutually agree that there is always tomorrow.

[spanzo]

I have a manual pump, red plastic, that I let my wife pump up for me before sex. She like to pump and watch the penis jump up a little with each pump. I think it might be erotically turning her on. Maybe some subconscious bondage/submission role play going on.

I suggest the same to you. Have your wife try it, control it. Maybe she starts enjoying it instead of thinking it weird or icky.

also, maybe you get her even more involved. I have my wife nibble/lick my nipple while she is pumping it up. Connects in her mind: Pump = leads to kinky sex. Also, she need to split her attention: tit/pump. Gets her mind off of if it is weird or not, and gets her thinking: need big cock