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Post surgery 10 months. Pumping for 6 months. Penis appears hard but we are having difficulty with penetration. Wife's vagina has always been very tight. Have used lots of lube and foreplay. Suggestions?

Your wife and my wife are alike except that as a younger woman, she was loose down there even with my hefty endowment.

Age brings vaginal atrophy and vaginismus. My wife refuses to take hormones for health reasons. Hounds68 has recommended to me some DHEA suppositories I believe. I hope he sees this thread and tells you what he and his wife are doing.

In the mean time, I hope you and your wife are farring better with oral sex for both of you. With age, there are other ways to achieve sexual fulfillment, but husband and wife have to be on the same page with it. I also hope you fare better than I with involving other erogenous zones that my wife does not find kosher. Good luck on the new toy and using it to the max.

Yea, wife refuses hormones and unfortunately no longer wants or gives oral. She has asked recently if there is a way for her to get less tight. Not certain yet what to suggest to her. Thanks for the info.

If you haven't yet investigated the option you might want to look into vaginal dilators. You'll find both medical grade and sex shop grade. I don't have any specific recommendations.

I checked my PMs from Hounds68. His wife also does not like hormones.

She uses DHEA vaginal suppositories for vaginal atrophy. He says it is great The walls of the vagina grow thin and painful with age.

Check this out on the web and hopefully Hound will check out your thread. He is a house on fire with his implant.

Good luck

Also.........Count your blessings. Tight is much better than loose if you can solve your dryness and pain problem.

I always envied guys who wives had a chokehold on their dicks when they posted about it.

Hi sounds about the same with my wife, at about 58 she went dry and tight.

Mrs. Slacker uses Replens lubricant and I use coconut oil, as often recommended here. This combo has been working well.

My wife uses coconut oil but it's still a chore getting it in. Since using Trimix for the past few years my girth is over 6". Once I'm in she takes it like a champ.