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My problem is that immediately after penetration, my dick starts to deflate making intercourse impossible. I'm getting a good erection from my VED and it lasts for 20 plus minutes during practice sessions. My very understanding wife has been great but I'm getting a little pissed off. So far we've only tried the missionary position. I'm using the erecaid system with the D ring. Any suggestions?

I am not familiar with the Erecaid D ring; however, I have had great success with the Osbon tension band.

bob,

Are you using only a single D-ring? As tight as that one is, one is not enough. Try adding on another less tight ring too.

Other suggestions: Missionary position is the worst for a pumped erection -- partly due to swivel effect of the ring making it hard to keep it 'straight in' and partly because it it more exertion supporting yourself on top. Some guys say it is a good position and they don't have a problem, but I always did.

For me, by far, the best position for longest lasting is the spoons position from behind -- both of us laying on our side.

Might not be so good for your partner if she likes a lot of face to face activity tho,... oh well ..

J

Thanks, Jim. Spooning is something we haven't done much through the years. I'll try the added rings. Perhaps also try putting her on the edge of the bed with me standing. I'm open to any suggestions.

Sounds as if you are simply not using a tight enough ring. If you are using the smallest one, then try two rings. With a VED and ring, you should have an erection like steel.