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Typical story: I developed ED after a heart attack and triple bypass way back in 2000. I took the pills for years until they eventually quit working. Shots didn't work either. Doctor says I'm a prime candidate for an implant. But insurance won't pay for it and I can't afford it. So for the last year I've been using the pump with some success.
Back when I could get a natural erection and even when using the pills, my penis would get to 6 1/2 to 7 inches and be rock hard. However, with the pump, the best I can manage is about 5 inches. To make matters worse, even with using two rings, I can't maintain a strong enough erection for intercourse for more than about 10-15 minutes. It just sorta leaks down.
My lady and I are both 63 years old. We're both a little overweight and neither of us can move as well as we once did.
The problem is that we both enjoy extended foreplay for at least 15 to 20 minutes to build up to the grand event. Now we feel rushed to try and have sex before my penis wilts. We have tried having the foreplay before I pump up. But stopping in the middle of things while I take the time to do so is a real mood killer.
Finally, my short penis makes insertion difficult and awkward. We have tried multiple positions, but she has bad knees which limit what we can do. Basically, there's no way she can be on top or kneel.
Frankly, we can have sex, but it isn't anywhere near as rewarding as we would like it to be.

What I need is a longer penis and to be able to hold my erection longer. Does anyone know of any exercises or techniques that can help me achieve this goal? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Gray,

Firstly, since you seem serious and dedicated about this, are you using Osbon rings? If not get two or three of various sizes and tension and try those. Not cheap but worth it.

Second, even with Osbon, yeah you will start to loose hardness in 10 to 15 minutes -- even with two.
(are you trying spoons position? That seems to work the best -- although maybe not so great for the Missus -- but then again she can easily watch TV or Cellphone or read a book while you are plowing away from behind ... hah.

Third, Maybe some recreational pumping will help get you back up to full size .. even if not using for intercourse. (or just use for a HJ or BJ if you really don't want to waste it). It took me 1-2 months to get the extra pumped inch -- never got any more after 5 more years, but it never went less either as long as I keep some regular pumping going. Also even when recreational pumping I always add the two rings on -- not leaving in the tube to get edema ....

Fourth, maybe also try a penile sleeve as has been discussed here from time to time. Can add to hardness and fix floppy/swivel and give a little comfort back from those rings.

Fifth, I have noticed my OLD battery pump was able to get an inch or so more length before the pump could not suck anymore vacuum. A 5 year NEWER supposedly same exact battery pump stopped sucking sooner and caused a half to 1" shorter pumped length. Your ideal pumped length should be .5" to 1' MORE than your old erect length so if you are not getting that much extra after a month or two of pumping then maybe you need more vacuum. If it is not uncomfortable when pumped up you probably are not at max effective vacuum.

Give a few of those a try ...

J

Grayfox,
Just to follow up on what Jim said ... what kind of pump are you using? ... Yes the amount of vacuum makes a difference.

Since the pump is your last resort ... build yourself one like in the image = about $37 at Amazon (links below)

Typical cheap but effective pump ($14)
http://www.amazon.com/California-Exotic-Novelties-1030-00-3-Bullfighter/dp/B002JINMG0/

ABN Vacuum Pump ($22.50) (combine the two pieces)
https://www.amazon.com/ABN-Vacuum-Brake-Bleed-Automotive/dp/B00KB9D3UO/

Next ... get a better ring(s)
http://www.vitalitymedical.com/tension-bands-penis-rings.html

The "sleeve" Jim mentioned ...
http://uandmetime.com/products/store/#ecwid:category=1213451&mode=product&product=4958535

Once you find a ring that fits and holds your pumped erection (should last about 30 min.) ... try several different methods, like folding the ears of the ring up into the pump tube and pump. Have your wife participate ... let her pump you up sometimes.

I agree with all that has been said about recreational pumping with a pump like the one pictured above. I have used one for years with good results. Try jelqing also. I do that too.

Grayfox wrote:Typical story: I developed ED after a heart attack and triple bypass way back in 2000. I took the pills for years until they eventually quit working. Shots didn't work either. Doctor says I'm a prime candidate for an implant. But insurance won't pay for it and I can't afford it. So for the last year I've been using the pump with some success.
Back when I could get a natural erection and even when using the pills, my penis would get to 6 1/2 to 7 inches and be rock hard. However, with the pump, the best I can manage is about 5 inches. To make matters worse, even with using two rings, I can't maintain a strong enough erection for intercourse for more than about 10-15 minutes. It just sorta leaks down.
My lady and I are both 63 years old. We're both a little overweight and neither of us can move as well as we once did.
The problem is that we both enjoy extended foreplay for at least 15 to 20 minutes to build up to the grand event. Now we feel rushed to try and have sex before my penis wilts. We have tried having the foreplay before I pump up. But stopping in the middle of things while I take the time to do so is a real mood killer.
Finally, my short penis makes insertion difficult and awkward. We have tried multiple positions, but she has bad knees which limit what we can do. Basically, there's no way she can be on top or kneel.
Frankly, we can have sex, but it isn't anywhere near as rewarding as we would like it to be.

What I need is a longer penis and to be able to hold my erection longer. Does anyone know of any exercises or techniques that can help me achieve this goal? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Grayfox;
On behalf of all of us members who have dicks that are 5" or less.... it's ok, we are not offended one little bit by your flattering comments..... ok, maybe some of us are. Perhaps you have Oraficepedosis??

Larry

Alanoc8 wrote:I agree with all that has been said about recreational pumping with a pump like the one pictured above. I have used one for years with good results. Try jelqing also. I do that too.

With all the people who have described life altering ED as a result of jelqing, I am surprised that anyone still does it. Some of these people are the same ones that think that implantees are crazy. At least an implant is a guaranteed procedure performed by a surgeon in a sterile environment.

Larry

I agree that improper jelqing can cause injury. However, if properly performed, it has helped a lot of guys to safely improve ther erection quality (EQ another acronym). Jelq with an erection level between 40 and 70%. Do not grip too tight, just enough to feel blood moving up the shaft.

Pulse pumping is another technique that helps improve EQ. Pump up to 5 hg (inches of mercury) for two minutes and then reduce the vacuume to 2 hg for 30 seconds. Repeat five times. This procedure imitates the process a healthy dick goes through during rem sleep most every night.

With regard to constriction bands (I use Osbon), I pump up and constrict in anticipation of of intercourse. I also "reload" the cylinder with a second band. We enjoy foreplay in the spoon position for ten minutes or so. I then remove the first band and proceed with oral for another 5 - 10 minutes until we are ready to bring the process to a climax. I then repump up my erection and slide on the second band which provides a freshly engorged erection for orgasm.

I pump(ed) twice daily to maximum size, then release, then repeat several times for 10-20 minutes a session. Retained/regained length and girth and kept washing fresh blood into the penis during those sessions.

So, pumping is not just for sex, but for maintaining your penis' health and size.

The "X" position is something you might try. She lays on her back with knees up in the air. You athwart the bed on your side under her knees. Your penis can enter her easily, if not deeply. Remember, it is the first inch or two that really counts for her pleasure.

Good luck.

Grayfox wrote:Typical story: I developed ED after a heart attack and triple bypass way back in 2000. I took the pills for years until they eventually quit working. Shots didn't work either. Doctor says I'm a prime candidate for an implant. But insurance won't pay for it and I can't afford it. So for the last year I've been using the pump with some success.
Back when I could get a natural erection and even when using the pills, my penis would get to 6 1/2 to 7 inches and be rock hard. However, with the pump, the best I can manage is about 5 inches. To make matters worse, even with using two rings, I can't maintain a strong enough erection for intercourse for more than about 10-15 minutes. It just sorta leaks down.
My lady and I are both 63 years old. We're both a little overweight and neither of us can move as well as we once did.
The problem is that we both enjoy extended foreplay for at least 15 to 20 minutes to build up to the grand event. Now we feel rushed to try and have sex before my penis wilts. We have tried having the foreplay before I pump up. But stopping in the middle of things while I take the time to do so is a real mood killer.
Finally, my short penis makes insertion difficult and awkward. We have tried multiple positions, but she has bad knees which limit what we can do. Basically, there's no way she can be on top or kneel.
Frankly, we can have sex, but it isn't anywhere near as rewarding as we would like it to be.

What I need is a longer penis and to be able to hold my erection longer. Does anyone know of any exercises or techniques that can help me achieve this goal? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Here is a position suggestion... you stand at the side of your bed. Have your wife put her bum at the edge of the bed and put her legs up on your shoulders. This position should work great for you.. My size is about the same as you.
Larry

Lost Sheep wrote:I pump(ed) twice daily to maximum size, then release, then repeat several times for 10-20 minutes a session. Retained/regained length and girth and kept washing fresh blood into the penis during those sessions.

So, pumping is not just for sex, but for retaining yourself.

The "X" position is something you might try. She lays on her back with knees up in the air. You athwart the bed on your side under her knees. Your penis can enter her easily, if not deeply. Remember, it is the first inch or two that really counts for her pleasure.

Good luck.

Pre-implant surgery, my doctor told me to pump up just until it is uncomfortable, leave it for 3 minutes, 5 times, twice per day. Good luck

Larry