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texasguy
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Male Vibrator

Postby texasguy » Tue May 04, 2021 1:00 pm

Hello:

In 2019 I was diagnosed with Stage 1 Prostate Cancer and underwent Nerve Sparing Radical Prostatectomy in October 2020. I am on Trimix (11-13 units), daily 5 mg Cialis, and VED. I am 53 years old.

My wife has lost interest in sex due to onset of menopause, plus an injury in knee. We have sex 2-4 times a month. I wish it was 2-3 times a week, like old times. Can anyone please recommend a good vibrator that I could use?

Thank you very much in advance.

Cheers.

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bldoink
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Re: Male Vibrator

Postby bldoink » Tue May 04, 2021 1:31 pm

I don't have any vibrator suggestions. None I tried did much for me including the magic wand with assorted male attachments or the very expensive Viberect.

The sleeve type masturbators/strokers/sleeves seem to work well, like the Fleshlight. There are some of those type that also have vibration options although I've never played with one with the vibrator option.

There's a nearly endless variety of men's toys you can try but not nearly as many as woman's toys.

Be sure and report your findings.
R.R.P 2011 Mayo Jacksonville, Dr. M. Wehle. Not nerve sparing. C in margins. Radiation 2023, V.E.D, Viagra and PGE-1 (80mcg/ml) injections @ 8 - 14 units. Originally Edex20, then compounded PGE due to cost. Inject. 12 yrs. It works. Treasure coast of FL.

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Re: Male Vibrator

Postby GoodWood » Tue May 04, 2021 1:52 pm

I think the Tenga Flip Zero feels great. It has 4 vibration settings. Easy to clean out. The charge lasts a long time. The only downside is that it is a little pricey at around $180. And it’s necessary to be fairly firm to penetrate it.

In my case I need to take a shot of Quadmix to use it. The semi I get naturally is fine for stroking with my hand, but not rigid enough to penetrate effectively.

But I like it a lot. If a sleeve masturbator is something you are considering I’d recommend this one.
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Re: Male Vibrator

Postby Lost Sheep » Tue May 04, 2021 2:11 pm

texasguy wrote:Hello:

In 2019 I was diagnosed with Stage 1 Prostate Cancer and underwent Nerve Sparing Radical Prostatectomy in October 2020. I am on Trimix (11-13 units), daily 5 mg Cialis, and VED. I am 53 years old.

My wife has lost interest in sex due to onset of menopause, plus an injury in knee. We have sex 2-4 times a month. I wish it was 2-3 times a week, like old times. Can anyone please recommend a good vibrator that I could use?

Thank you very much in advance.

Cheers.

If you don't mind the price, Sybian (known for its female masturbation device) also has a male-oriented masturbation device. You send them your measurements and they make one to fit. The custom fit should address GoodWood's comment about semi-rigidity being insufficient for penetration of the device.
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Re: Male Vibrator

Postby Old Guy » Tue May 04, 2021 3:56 pm

Check Amazon or eBay for male masturbators. There are numerous varieties from simple vibration, sucking, stroking and rotating styles. The sucking one I just bought would work even with a semi-erection I believe. I also have one that rotates and thrusts with many mixes of patterns. Gets me off every time.
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raked mast
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Re: Male Vibrator

Postby raked mast » Tue May 04, 2021 8:19 pm

Consider the Aneros Vice 2. see the review below. This is for prostate orgasm which according to what I have read may or may not push semen out the end of a penis. However, prostate orgasm has the feelings of orgasm but instead of 10-15 second experience with semen push, this type of orgasm could go on for 3-5 minutes, pause and start over again. Sex with a woman is always a pleasure but some times we have to adapt. I am on this path having experienced severe ED starting 2 years ago.time I did experience very small prostate orgasm at that time and while it is a little different, it is definitely something worth pursuing.

https://www.aneros.com/community/testim ... ost-111491
Age 70, post mild heart attack, used viagra from age 63.Trimix now NOT at all.

Qoheleth52
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Re: Male Vibrator

Postby Qoheleth52 » Tue May 04, 2021 8:27 pm

I would recommend one of the silicone slab types in whatever shape and size catches your eye (similar to a stroker but more realistic feel IMO). Some have a substantial weight to them you can really pound lol. You can control the action, angle and feel which I find more pleasing than a repetitive vibrating type. Plus they are typically cheap on Amazon or eBay.

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Re: Male Vibrator

Postby SteveSW » Tue May 04, 2021 9:39 pm

It is incredibly hard for me to get off. Peyronie's started it, and it went on worsening for years. I love my Hitachi Magic Wand with the Hummingbird (stupid name, I know) male attachment. It's amazing, and induces the most incredible, mind blowing orgasms. It's my go to when I need to cum, which is quite often.
20 years of severe Peyronie's plaque, 90 curve, hinging and ED. Cost me 1.5" L and 1" G.
Implanted 2/18/21, AMS CX, 18 CM + 3 RTE, penoscrotal. Have gained 3/4". Gay, married, age 68.

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Re: Male Vibrator

Postby richkez32 » Wed May 05, 2021 12:54 pm

I brought this for my wife. But It works very good on me especially if used with some lube and rubbed up and down my frenulum :D

https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B08 ... UTF8&psc=1
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texasguy
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Re: Male Vibrator

Postby texasguy » Wed May 05, 2021 9:35 pm

Thank you so very much! Seems there are a number of options available. I will be evaluating Tenga Flip Zero EV as I like the price point and the features/ quality.


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