Is my injury serious?

[1969CevyC10]

Tony367, took my wife and me 5 times before we got it right and even after that
we missed a couple times......I need to learn to relax and just let it happen,
not easy to do.

[Tony367]

Wow, it's great to hear you guys have such understanding wives! Yes I believe my gf would be the same way. Hearing all this is helping me get over my insecurities! As I said before, where else can I get this understanding and information! Thank you!

[sogwap]

Me too... I missed the mark.

My ED was so bad that several months my wife didnt want sex anymore even though she is HLF. I have taken viagra for 10 year and the last 3 years it lost effectiveness.
I contacted the urologist 6 months ago, about Trimix took six months (Canada health care) finally got an appointment a week ago.

I took my first full injection (10 units) a week ago, Both nervous and excited. It worked but was not much better than viagra. I was hopeful by the results, my wife told me later she was disappointed.
On Friday I took my second injection (15 units) and (absolutely) nothing happened. WTG? I was flabbergasted and my wife got upset, left the room for 1/2 hour. she hardly spoke with me for the next two days. I shared my experience here. And was told it would have been ok to take a second injection after the first one apparently missed the mark.
On Sunday evening my wife went to bed early (tired). So I tried an injection solo (still havent told her). Was able to hold fairly strong erection for an hour.

So now I am in a quandary. How do I gain back my wife's confidence that the injections will provide better sex?

[1969CevyC10]

sogwop, my wife was not sold on injections either, until I hit the magic spot when I injected
and we had the best sex we've had for many years. My wife was tired of the viagra not working
and false promises, but I know now she is totally comfortable with me injecting, in fact,
because I seem to miss the magic spot so many times, SHE is now doing the injecting and
I have to say she does not miss the magic spot very often. Talk to your wife, let her know
there are many other wives who have been down the same road, but if you work TOGETHER,
there are many good things than can happen for both of you.....Good Luck!

[azmike]

“ So now I am in a quandary. How do I gain back my wife's confidence that the injections will provide better sex?”

Easy, show her proof. 15 wasn’t enough for me but when my wife injected 20 and saw and felt the size and hardness she was sold!

[seekonk]

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