sirgawain wrote:magicman222 wrote:
I'm thinking the Foley Catheter incident indeed damaged my penis and contributed to my sudden ED.
Will never forget the conversation with the nurse right before she removed the catheter:
Her: OK now relax, going to remove the catheter
Me: OK, is this going to hurt?
Her: No, it won't hurt, but it's going to feel a little weird
<She rapidly pulls it out>
Me: HOLY SH*T MOTHERF*CKER ^@#$^% (at the top of my lungs which could barely be heard due to post thoracic surgery fluid in my lungs)
Her: That shouldn't have hurt
Me: Holy sh*t that hurt -- that was the most painful part of this surgery experience thus far!
I had this *exact* thing happen when I had my surgeries, and my problems started then too. I remember right when they removed it, lots of blood, major pain, and some words about whether or not they had properly lubed it before it ever went in. Since that point:
- ED
- Reduced sensation
- Lost most of my ejaculate to where it's like droplets instead of ropes.
I have yet to get a Doppler done, but am going to talk to them about it. The urologists are sick of talking to me at this point.
Yes, I'm convinced that this event is the cause of my problems.
Now just doing my best to get on with things. Daily Cialis. Trimix.
Have to say the Trimix is amazing and my girlfriend loves it.
Sometimes I have delayed ejaculation with Trimix when my boner is too rock hard. Also some annoying pain/soreness.
Urologist recommends Bimix which he says isn't as strong. Gonna pick some up next week when I see him.
Happy to try it. I just want a nice boner that lasts an hour or so, doesn't ache, and isn't desensitized to make orgasm difficult.
In any case, it's all treatable; not the end of the world.