Tri-Mix and anorgasmia

[CanGetItUpButNotOff]

An update…

After a period of 3 fails out of 5 attempts, I've had a run of three successful attempts where the orgasm was pretty easy to achieve. The scientist in me is frustrated that I can't isolate the causes of either the failures or the successes. I've made two adjustments but I can't say either is really the Holy Grail: 1) brought the Tri-Mix dose down to 1¼ units of 30/3/20, 2) rubbing in some "Promescent Warming Lube for Women".

The former keeps me hard right to the point of ejaculation, which would seem ideal. But I worry that the short duration of effectiveness, while just right, could portend a time when it flags when most needed.

The latter was suggested by someone here on FT. It definitely has a warming effect but I can't tell if it actually helps the orgasm. It will likely end up in the bucket, which is quite full, of items that I don't know if they work but I'm too afraid to give up.

EDIT: 4 out of 4. Feeling confident. But… "Pride goeth before the fall"

[CanGetItUpButNotOff]

Quick update. Success in cumming is unpredictable. Four out of the last five sessions have ended in success, but that one failure is a nagging concern. Everything (desire, refractory period, 1¼ units of TriMix, OD'ing on L-Arginine and L-Citrulline, premescrnt warming gel, enthusiastic wife) was GO, but when it came time, the little fella was just not feeling it.

More recently, I upped the dose to 1½ units and after 4 hours I had to resort to a 50mg phenylephrine injection. First time in more than a month. This was after the reverse kegel method, ice and 120mg pseudophedrine failed to relieve the pressure. I am amazed at how effective the phenylephrine is: after 2 minutes I was a wet noodle.