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I've been with a woman for 6 months now, using trimix the entire time. After a month or two I confessed I'd struggled with ED and usually use medication for it. She assumed it was pills and I let her, since she's super squeamish about needles and blood. Yesterday as we were having some deep discussions I went ahead and confessed that it wasn't pills, it's shots. She said she already knew. And was totally cool with it. She's accepted I can't do it spontaneously at any moment, or both in the afternoon and at night, but she says it seems to work well so she's fine with it.

It's a relief to stop worrying about hiding syringes and crap like that, or finding excuses to sneak off to the bathroom. I even told her if she's ever in the mood, just to tell me to go take a shot. She liked that idea.

We have a great sex life with the assistance of trimix. Sometimes I wonder if I should try sex without it again, just to see if I can have a natural response with her, but I think it would result in the same old problems.

One of the worst parts about ED is the shame. I hope everyone finds partners who help alleviate that.

Oh! This post is a big hope to us! Thank you!

Congrats on navigating that successfully. She sounds like a cool girlfriend.

Slipinslider,

Congratulations on the improvement in your sex life. My theory is that women who really enjoy sex don't care how we get hard. They just want us to get hard.

Cigar56 wrote:Slipinslider,

Congratulations on the improvement in your sex life. My theory is that women who really enjoy sex don't care how we get hard. They just want us to get hard.

She's definitely one of those women. She might be a keeper.

Once you've had a woman who really enjoys sex, it's impossible to settle down with one who doesn't.

A little update to my story.

Telling my GF about my injections allowed an extra benefit - I can use less of the drug.

When I was keeping it a secret, I was probably doing a few units more than I needed, just to be sure it worked and to give her an amazing experience. But then I'd stay hard too long and worry about damage.

Now that she's aware and supportive, I have less of a fear of it not working, since I know she won't judge me and I could just do a second small additional injection if needed.

This morning, we even had sex for the first time without any drugs or injections. She's horniest in the morning and was just moaning and rubbing on me, we fooled around, I got semi hard. I warned her that it might not work, but since I wasn't worried about her judging me or other bad reactions, I went ahead and inserted into her, and although I was softer than she's ever seen me during sex, she still enjoyed it, and i was able to orgasm. So even though I didn't use trimix this morning, I still feel like I owe that success to trimix since it has given be the confidence to know I can please my woman if I need to.

Good move!
Congrats!

slipnslider wrote: Sometimes I wonder if I should try sex without it again, just to see if I can have a natural response with her, but I think it would result in the same old problems.

My wife was a bit of a purist, at first especially and resisted a bit, but even now and wants to try "naturally", but after 10 minutes of squirming around with a noodle, she eagerly says, "OK go do it" with that look. Since I seem to have terminal anorgasmia, she knows I'm not in it for me, purely for her, so why not ride that pony good and hard.