Wonderful Woman
Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2012 9:33 pm
I am writing this post as I am so excited about the new woman in my life and this is the one place I can share that I know the group here will understand how grateful I am.
I was first diagnosed with PC 12 years ago at the age of 46. I chose EBR as treatment which seemed to be very effective at the time. About 3 years ago psa started rising...slowly at first and then accelerating. In Feb of 2012 I was luckey enough to have a great surgeon perform a salvage procedure which has been very successful. ( 9 mos after surgery psa = 0.00, Yeah!)
Anyway... the surgery was not nerve sparing so I suffer complete ED. About 2 months after my surgery the stresses of my medical issues, my ED and so-on my wife left me. I have been dating, have gone out a few times but nothing really special.
In July my urologist prescribed Trimix and it was great. First time out the shute in his office at the training session a fantastic erection. Since then I have only injected once or twice a month. mainly to make sure I can maintain the injection technique and not that there has been anyone to share with.
And now to the reason for this post. A few weeks ago I met a very attractive woman. we went to coffee a few times and I told her up front about my "problem" but she continued to see me and then finally we went out for dinner and drinks. Again, it was a great time, we really seemed to connect! It was fun in that just like high school kids we went parking after dinner.....wonderful night. (didn't have my needle, at this stage didn't want to look like I'm planning sex, plus can't imagine injecting in a car!)
This Friday she invited me to her house for lunch. ( Again, I didn't bring my needle because it felt like "thanks for inviting me for lunch I'm going to plan on having sex with you", and now that I look back on it I'm glad I didn't!)
After lunch we started kissing in the kitchen, moved to the couch in the TV room and then she took me to her bedroom. We spent the afternoon just exploring each other. during one of our breaks I told her that although my penis didn't seem to be responding I was feeling every sensation as if I was normal. She then, even though I was flacid and I am pretty small in that state, brought me to orgasim orally....it was heaven!
I then made sure that she felt as if I could make an equivalent effort and then later as we were laying in each others arms I talked to her about the injection process and if it would bother her I would go into the bathroom when I did it....what she said to me was that she wanted to do the injection with me and help and support me in anyway she could....I almost couldn't believe it. What did I do to deserve such an angel?
Guys thanks for listening to my joy. I had been thinking why did GOD allow my cancer to be defeated only to take my wife away? I now realyze He took my wife away so I could meet this angel!
There is life after PC and ED if we put in the effort and believe we will find it. There is someone out there for each of us!
I was first diagnosed with PC 12 years ago at the age of 46. I chose EBR as treatment which seemed to be very effective at the time. About 3 years ago psa started rising...slowly at first and then accelerating. In Feb of 2012 I was luckey enough to have a great surgeon perform a salvage procedure which has been very successful. ( 9 mos after surgery psa = 0.00, Yeah!)
Anyway... the surgery was not nerve sparing so I suffer complete ED. About 2 months after my surgery the stresses of my medical issues, my ED and so-on my wife left me. I have been dating, have gone out a few times but nothing really special.
In July my urologist prescribed Trimix and it was great. First time out the shute in his office at the training session a fantastic erection. Since then I have only injected once or twice a month. mainly to make sure I can maintain the injection technique and not that there has been anyone to share with.
And now to the reason for this post. A few weeks ago I met a very attractive woman. we went to coffee a few times and I told her up front about my "problem" but she continued to see me and then finally we went out for dinner and drinks. Again, it was a great time, we really seemed to connect! It was fun in that just like high school kids we went parking after dinner.....wonderful night. (didn't have my needle, at this stage didn't want to look like I'm planning sex, plus can't imagine injecting in a car!)
This Friday she invited me to her house for lunch. ( Again, I didn't bring my needle because it felt like "thanks for inviting me for lunch I'm going to plan on having sex with you", and now that I look back on it I'm glad I didn't!)
After lunch we started kissing in the kitchen, moved to the couch in the TV room and then she took me to her bedroom. We spent the afternoon just exploring each other. during one of our breaks I told her that although my penis didn't seem to be responding I was feeling every sensation as if I was normal. She then, even though I was flacid and I am pretty small in that state, brought me to orgasim orally....it was heaven!
I then made sure that she felt as if I could make an equivalent effort and then later as we were laying in each others arms I talked to her about the injection process and if it would bother her I would go into the bathroom when I did it....what she said to me was that she wanted to do the injection with me and help and support me in anyway she could....I almost couldn't believe it. What did I do to deserve such an angel?
Guys thanks for listening to my joy. I had been thinking why did GOD allow my cancer to be defeated only to take my wife away? I now realyze He took my wife away so I could meet this angel!
There is life after PC and ED if we put in the effort and believe we will find it. There is someone out there for each of us!
