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Although Bimix gives me a 90% erection when I find the correct injections spot (I've missed it a few times), it does not cause the engorgement of the glans. Consequently, I can't get enough stimulation to the glans to enable orgasm. Very frustrating. My wife doesn't orgasm via intercourse and only stimulation of her clit works for her. She's ok not having intercourse as long as I stimulate her clit to climax. This leaves me with an erection but no way to get off. She/I can manipulate my penis till the cows come home but no orgasm is achieved. That is very frustrating. The only way I can get any release at this point is using electro-stimulation. It provides a "release" so my mind can wind down but it does not provide the same sensations that "real" sex does. For me, electro-stimulation requires no erection at all. But there is no intimacy involved and the wife is not interested in incorporating it in foreplay (or pretty much any other toy either. She gives strong hints that she would like to avoid intercourse altogether as she is prone to UTIs. In her case she gets UTIs from time to time even though we've not had any kind of sex. Go figure. I'm disappointed and frustrated but am trying to stick with the Bimix so that my penis gets oxygenated with the hope that in time the nerves will recover enough so that Viagra or Cialis will enable the glans to engorge enough so I can orgasm without the cold electo-stim system. I miss the intimacy with my wife. Add to that I still have enough incontinence (RP was June 2016) which makes sex with my wife an anxious affair for both of us. She won't give oral, of course, and my anxiety of leaking just compounds things. This really sucks.

That is my rant for the day. I am trying to prepare my mind to accept that my sex life may be over. I think my wife would be happy with that as she has a super low libido anyway.

Hang in there. I had Rp in 2013.usung Bimix strongest injection you can get. My biggest problem was not being able to ejaculate. Found out by masturbating that climaxes are on a whole different level. Before once I came it was over and done. Now I can start off with a small sensation and have multiple ones and the next one is stronger than previous one.
Take matters in your own hand experiment. Usually end up exhausted but satisfied.

Couple tips>>>1) try adjustable cock ring, putting on after injecting and leaving on for 30-60 min. It should firm up glans.
2) Take Cialis or 50 Mg Viagra (empty stomach) prior to injecting. Glans blood supply is separate from cavernosa and is effected by pills. 3) Get wife RX for Nitrofurantonin (Macrobid) and take immediately after sex..works as preventative for UTI related to sex. Works for my wife.

Reggie,

Similar to what Ra said about adjustable cock ring ... you can also try using a velcro cable tie around cock-n-balls.

Just do a search for Velcro and then look for Fun With Velcro ...

Can get em at Lowes or Home Depot or on Amazon.

They will give you a mushroom cap like you would not believe and of course are infinitely adjustable. Just hope that your wife can take the extra girth that comes with the hard glans! Heh.

J

Good Luck in attaining your goals!
I'm interested in you estim setup. Any details on brand and accessories?

Lately I have been getting mixed results with injections, maybe attaining about 60% firmness. Would applying cock right after injecting help with firmness? And if so, what is the best one to get? I am about 6" long with a 4.75 " girth.

Since I now lack enough sensation in my glans I was wondering if a tight fitting Fleshlight might help me orgasm. Has anyone tried a Fleshlight after RP?

Another question I still have not gotten a straight answer on is this. How can the glans get naturally engorged after a RP? Aren't the nerves to the glans damaged the same as the nerves to the cavernosa (?)? Iv'e been taking Cialis for months but see no effect on my glans when trying to masturbate (always unsuccessful) or have sex. Part of my problem may be anxiety especially when I am with my wife as I am still a little incontinent still. I worry about leaking during foreplay. But, that shouldn't be a problem when I am by myself. I can see how the glans might engorge while using a bend or restrictor. I may have some Velcro in the shop:)

Needled-I posted a long reply to your question about electro-stim but it disappeared. There is a site called smartstim.com that will answer every question you can imagine. It is not a scam site and I have no financial interest in it. I am a lurker on that site. You need to sign up to get on the site but they don't sell your name or address and is a member based site. Members ask questions and member (many are experts) answer them. There are some simple basics to learn so you are safe and successful.

sliphill wrote:Lately I have been getting mixed results with injections, maybe attaining about 60% firmness. Would applying cock right after injecting help with firmness? And if so, what is the best one to get? I am about 6" long with a 4.75 " girth.

I'm sorry about hijacking your thread. I'll post this on a new thread.