Fleshlight: The Perfect Training Tool for Injections

[Cigar56]

I recommend all newbies comfortable with masturbating to invest in the Fleshlight masturbator. (You can Google it). One thing that's important when just starting injections is the freedom to experiment without the pressure of having a naked woman lying in bed waiting for you.

The Fleshlight is a sex toy designed like a vagina and enclosed in a flashlight-like case. I'm just a happy customer with two models currently and I am not affiliated with the company in any way. With the Fleshlight I can practice injecting anytime I have the time and privacy. I gotta admit, that once you start to get the injections dialed in, masturbating with the Fleshlight is about as close as you can get to the real thing -- especially if you're comfortable with some adult images or video from the internet.

More important is the ability to use the toy to perfect your injection technique. I've practiced 10- or 15-minute quickies with injections -- and two-hour marathons. I had ED as a young man and thought it was natural for a guy to be one and done. Now I am having up to three pops over 90 minutes to two hours. Married at age 25, I am now in my sixties and having the best sex of my life, hand's down -- and I owe it all to injections. Unfortunately, my wife doesn't have a lot of stamina for sex. I'm the high drive person and after 15-20 minutes she is ready to just get it over with.

No worries. After many quickie sessions with her I have retired to my office/man cave to have a couple more with some good imagery and the Fleshlight. I highly recommend it or a similar product if you are comfortable with toys. The Fleshlight has absolutely helped me perfect my use of injections including testing different formulas/prescriptions, learning how much to inject, testing how many times a day or a week, etc. I found it one of the fastest ways to really get up to speed.

The more you really work at injections the more you get from them. There are times I long for the convience of an implant, but that is such an invasive suregery that it's hard to justify once you really get injections dialed in. Just remember, it takes practice, practice, practice.

Good luck to everyone no matter what you are doing to get better at injections. The guys who give up are usually those who simply don't give it enough time.

Stay with it!

[bldoink]

Yeah, they work very well but I had to modify the crap out of mine first.

[40buickcoupe]

My hand works pretty good I have had it with me 63 years. Wife is good for twice a week but I'm on my own after that. My right hand has never let me down yet. I'm guessing some men that may be the ticket

[Cigar56]

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[Cigar56]

Yeah, they work very well but I had to modify the crap out of mine first.

Hey bidoink,

How did you modify it? After the Trimix kicks in I get really girthy and I have ripped both of my Fleshlights. One of them has tears at the opening of the vagina and another rip five inches or so in. But it still works. Why did you modify your sleeves and how?

[Cigar56]

My hand works pretty good I have had it with me 63 years. Wife is good for twice a week but I'm on my own after that. My right hand has never let me down yet. I'm guessing some men that may be the ticket

I was also a "hand man" until I discovered the male masturbators. My hand is no match for the Fleshlight. LOL

[bldoink]

Hey bidoink,

How did you modify it? After the Trimix kicks in I get really girthy and I have ripped both of my Fleshlights. One of them has tears at the opening of the vagina and another rip five inches or so in. But it still works. Why did you modify your sleeves and how?

Like you I get very girthy and I found the Fleshlights too tight. I have a regular size Fleshlight and a Flight. I got them both at the same time. I found both to be too tight and decided to modify. I experimented on the Flight first as it was cheaper and I didn't want to ruin the more expensive onet. Plus it seems the big ones are designed for 8" dicks, which I don't have. After I tried the modified one I lost the drive to alter the bigger one as the Flight works just fine. As of yet it seems to be holding up well in spite of my modifications. I got the original idea from a posting somewhere on the internet but I don't remember where or the specific instructions.

These are my instructions (slightly updated) I posted in an earlier thread on anorgasmia (http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=8875):

Problem, the length is perfect but it was way too tight. So, I went about modifying the thing. After modification and experimentation I think I finally got it right. It was trial and error but if it had been done logically and in order it would look like this:

Fleshlight Flight Modification procedure

1. The plastic ring at the opening was smaller than my required girth.
   Solution:
   
   1. Remove cap and pull inner jelly sleeve from casing.
   2. Pull ring from mouth of casing. A little effort may be required as it snaps in and was held by mild silicone type glue.
   3. Chuck a 2" hole saw in the drill press and cut a hole out of 1/4" plywood
   4. Use hot glue and glue the 2" plywood disk (you just cut from the plywood) in center of ring, making sure it's centered and flat. You can adjust before glue cools.
   5. Chuck a 2 1/4" hole saw in the drill press.
   6. Use the existing hole in the plywood disk to center and cut a 2 1/4" hole from the Fleshlight ring. You'll have to take frequent breaks or your work will heat up and your hot glue will get soft.
   7. Scrape and then sand the inside of the ring so it's smooth like factory work but not sharp. This gave me a finished diameter of 2.275" equaling a girth of 7.147, minus of course the space taken by the sleeve.
2. Even with the opened up ring it was still too tight. Solutions:
   
   1. Remove inner sleeve from casing.
   2. Make sure the inner sleeve is well powdered with corn starch.
   3. With long sharp scissors completely trim off all 4 ridges running down the outside or the exterior of the sleeve.
   4. With the scissors cut 8 deep scallops into the thick inner rim of the sleeve. This was at the bottom of the rim that also helps hold the sleeve onto the previously altered ring. Leave enough to still hold the sleeve on the ring. Don't cut all of the way into where the ring actually sits.

The result of this modification will leave the sleeve fitting a bit loose in the casing but I've had no issues with them separating. I have no idea what these alterations will do to longevity but I'm sure it eliminates any warranty. The good news is that it now seems to work for me and I'll now be giving that program a try. If you aren't a bit girthy you just wasted your time reading this. Sorry!

I hope you find all that useful.

[bldoink]

My hand works pretty good I have had it with me 63 years. Wife is good for twice a week but I'm on my own after that. My right hand has never let me down yet. I'm guessing some men that may be the ticket

I was also a "hand man" until I discovered the male masturbators. My hand is no match for the Fleshlight. LOL

Agreed!

[Cigar56]

Bldoink, thanks for the Fleshlght modification instructions. That's a creative approach for sure, and I may try it. Good stuff!

[goodwoodnow]

Nice to see the discussion on Fleshlights. I got one (Flight) a few months ago and posted a few ideas and replies. The issue it helped me with was that I was having a hard time reaching orgasm, at first with my wife then more generally, even when masturbating.... me doing myself or her stroking me or even both of us. i've been doing WAY better since i did a Fleshlight routine.

I enjoy my left hand a lot too, and the thrill is for the most part back. What the F.L. did for me was to train me to grip more lightly and stroke more slowly , "let the sensations come to me" ("cum to me?"). With my hand or while having intercourse or getting a hand job or oral i was trying to hard, too focused on cumming. When things diidn't work I'd try harder, grip tighter (see "death grip") and thrust or stroke faster. using F.L. made death grip impossible due to plastic outer case, and it felt very nice even with slower stroking. After 3-4 weeks of 2 or 3 "training sessions" a week my mojo and my ability to reach intense orgasms was back!

More recently I discovered that I'd been using too little Alprostadil in my injections. Sorry if you are one of the guys who followed my advice to use less. It was working well when I posted it. But then I found my erections not lasting as well as I like (20-30 minutes usually does it for me...and for her. I tried boosting the injection up to 16-18 units from 10-12. The "rock hard" hardons are back.

Good luck to all as you experiment with making it awesome!