Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
Don't know where to post this but my wife is getting weird in her old age. Doesn't want to kiss, hug or god no, fuck. She has decided my new implant is disgusting. I do leak urine at times but have learned to control that somewhat. Thinking that is turning her off, I said I would wear a condom. Problem there is with diminished feeling from the RP, I would probably take forever to come. She didn't even give me an answer on that suggestion. Browsing CityX Guide for hookers near by now. Fucking cancer sucks. We had good sex before the RP and I still got hard as long as I wanted it at 75. There are days with all the other pain I have when I wonder if it is all worth it.
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20
Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
oldbeek wrote:Don't know where to post this but my wife is getting weird in her old age. Doesn't want to kiss, hug or god no, fuck. She has decided my new implant is disgusting. I do leak urine at times but have learned to control that somewhat. Thinking that is turning her off, I said I would wear a condom. Problem there is with diminished feeling from the RP, I would probably take forever to come. She didn't even give me an answer on that suggestion. Browsing CityX Guide for hookers near by now. Fucking cancer sucks. We had good sex before the RP and I still got hard as long as I wanted it at 75. There are days with all the other pain I have when I wonder if it is all worth it.
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Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
That really sucks. I'm kinda in the same situation, my partner looks hot and I have a lot of desire for her that I express often, but she has no interest in sex and has big dryness issues. She often responds jokingly that I need to find that elsewhere. At the same time, she is a very jealous woman. There are retail solutions to get your needs met, but that will diminish your relationship too. The misses might resent not being able to satisfy you and may resent you for your "needs". On the other hand, I'm living under a don't ask, don't tell, but I don't like it.
Sexual desire and love are two separate things. I love and adore my partner and we have a very strong and enjoyable relationship that is sexless. It is said the sex is only 5% of a relationship until there isn't any and then it becomes 95%.
My point is, try and work things out with the wife but if a sexual release can only be found outside of the home, find it discreetly.
Sexual desire and love are two separate things. I love and adore my partner and we have a very strong and enjoyable relationship that is sexless. It is said the sex is only 5% of a relationship until there isn't any and then it becomes 95%.
My point is, try and work things out with the wife but if a sexual release can only be found outside of the home, find it discreetly.
60 years old. MS and Severe ED 10+ years. Pills and injections never worked well. Implanted 5/16/2019 by Dr. Sadeghi. Titan 20cm + 2cm RTE.
Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
This seems to be a more common posting. Maybe the Holidays?
Sex is like Air.
It's never important until you're not getting any.
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So, I've been told.
Sex is like Air.
It's never important until you're not getting any.
usasexguide skipthegames and many others... Burner Phone recommended.
Google is your friend. Be in "incognito" browser mode (chrome browser) to prevent a History Trail.
So, I've been told.
ED 26 years. 1995->Pills->Shots->Implant penoscrotal Implanted Feb2021, AMS CX, 18 CM + 3 RTE, penoscrotal, 100cc reservoir. Looking forward to revision with a better Doctor.
Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
Old beek and Andrew, I am in the same boat. My wife of 52 years has always been stingy with giving me sex. For 52 years, I was miserable but I never strayed, but things just kept deteriorating between us. Now she says we would not have issues if you had not got the implant but that is nowhere near true. I feel that I was forced to go outside the marriage for sex, not what I wanted but what I felt that I needed to do for me.
I have a 45 year old girlfriend that is the light of my day, she is wonderful. This was supposed to be a sex only arrangement but we screwed up and got emotionally attached and now in love. My wife would cut my penis off and shove it up my ass with a mop handle if she had a chance, my girlfriend thinks the implant is the greatest invention since the wheel was invented. She flatters me with praise and constantly does things to keep me happy. And she loves to have sex, or just lay there and look at each other and smile.
I don't know what is right but I do know now, that I am happier with my girlfriend than I have been in the majority of my marriage.
I guess all I am saying is be careful because this is not what I had planned to happen but it has turned out to make me happier than I have been in 50 years. Life is what you make of it. Life is good if you want it to be.
Dave
I have a 45 year old girlfriend that is the light of my day, she is wonderful. This was supposed to be a sex only arrangement but we screwed up and got emotionally attached and now in love. My wife would cut my penis off and shove it up my ass with a mop handle if she had a chance, my girlfriend thinks the implant is the greatest invention since the wheel was invented. She flatters me with praise and constantly does things to keep me happy. And she loves to have sex, or just lay there and look at each other and smile.
I don't know what is right but I do know now, that I am happier with my girlfriend than I have been in the majority of my marriage.
I guess all I am saying is be careful because this is not what I had planned to happen but it has turned out to make me happier than I have been in 50 years. Life is what you make of it. Life is good if you want it to be.
Dave
born 1949, Cancer 2014, 1st Implant AMS CX 18 + 3 RTE, Oct 2015 by a Houston Doctor. Left with loss of length, Floppy Glans and pain, a very poor job. Revision in Dec 2016 by Dr. Kramer, 21 + 3 1/2 RTEs, LGX, Regained length, Glans supported and no pain.
Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
There are "Candy Stores" in nearly every city. Implant, extra time, extra $$....it's the "Golden Years Trifecta"......be discreet, your wife would really prefer not to catch you.... pm me if you need hints where to look..... Good luck guys!
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021
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Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
Well spoken Guys,
It seems we are torn between what is right, (according to society), and happiest. I've found many women withhold sex as a control mechanism. The negative side for us is the old saying, "if you don't use it, you loose it!", I believe, holds true. Implants changes the field and gives control back to us. Do what makes you happy, and you will be pleasantly surprised of potential partners who you face everyday. The key as mentioned before, please be discreet!
It seems we are torn between what is right, (according to society), and happiest. I've found many women withhold sex as a control mechanism. The negative side for us is the old saying, "if you don't use it, you loose it!", I believe, holds true. Implants changes the field and gives control back to us. Do what makes you happy, and you will be pleasantly surprised of potential partners who you face everyday. The key as mentioned before, please be discreet!
63 years old. Implanted 12/04/2018 by Dr. Aaron Lentz at Duke Raleigh Hospital with Coloplast Titan 22 cm. ED for over 30 years. Used Viagra and Cialis, later injections, THEN Gainswave: ineffective.
Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
Wow. My wife loves my hard dick. I wish we had sex more often. My want to is way more than hers but when we do it is great.
She did notice it starts out a bit more oval since the implant but the hornier I get the more engorged my shaft and head gets. I still am able to get engorged at the head good and when I pull out I can expand and flick her clit with it. Still drives her nuts.
No real difference sexually for us.
She did notice it starts out a bit more oval since the implant but the hornier I get the more engorged my shaft and head gets. I still am able to get engorged at the head good and when I pull out I can expand and flick her clit with it. Still drives her nuts.
No real difference sexually for us.
18 cm plus 1 rte titan installed March 2019. Revision March 2020 by Dr. Andrew Todd, Richmond KY. He replaced the titan with an AMS 700 LGX 18 cm cylinder plus 2 rte for 20 cm total length.
Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
I think a select group of women secretly can't wait for ED to set in. That removes the sex discussion. If hubby brings it up, she can beat the crap out of him for "his" failure to perform problem. She might even proclaim to miss sex just to twist the knife.
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months
Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting
Gt1956 wrote:I think a select group of women secretly can't wait for ED to set in. That removes the sex discussion. If hubby brings it up, she can beat the crap out of him for "his" failure to perform problem. She might even proclaim to miss sex just to twist the knife.
Or you get the old. Will this take long i want to get my nails done
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