First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

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Wade1958
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First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

Postby Wade1958 » Wed Apr 29, 2020 10:06 am

Had two rounds of xiaflex injections beginning in 2017 for peyroines (only made curvature and hourglass affect worse) implanted on 9/24/2018 surgeon could not complete insertion due to plaque, 2nd surgery 2/5/2019 still a mess not usable. I got 2nd opinion and 3rd surgery was completed 12/10/2019. SO i am 5 months post op the titan implant was used to try to give me some sort of usable penis. i am 4 1/2 bone pressed ,5 1/4 girth lost 1 1/2 length from peyroines and all the surgeries . First attempt at sex was not good the head of my penis is soft and not engorging making penetration difficult , second i had little to no sensation.My penis is still numb the length of my penis and down in to my scrotum (where the incision was ). My question is has anyone experienced this type of problems? and i have read where the use of Viagra has helped with engorgement and sensation.i read all the stories about guys back in the saddle and i guess i am envious . ANY help or suggestions are appreciated.
60 Very short period of ED,18 cm AMS cx 9/24/2018 Severe fibrosis , peyroines etc. second surgery 2/6/2019 to finish repairs from the first . Third surgery 12/13/2019 3 1/2 hour revision 16 cm titan so far so good. DR Wang Houston Texas

thereishope
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Re: First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

Postby thereishope » Wed Apr 29, 2020 2:23 pm

Hey wade... I am not sure what you can do for sensation, but there are a few things you can do to try to help out with length loss, depending how pro active you are. Traction and VED along with cycling your implant.

https://www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/S1743-6095(15)33384-1/fulltext

You can also try MUSE to help with glans engorgement. Some guys here say their doctor recommended it.

Lost Sheep
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Re: First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Apr 29, 2020 3:27 pm

Wade1958 wrote:Had two rounds of xiaflex injections beginning in 2017 for peyroines (only made curvature and hourglass affect worse) implanted on 9/24/2018 surgeon could not complete insertion due to plaque, 2nd surgery 2/5/2019 still a mess not usable. I got 2nd opinion and 3rd surgery was completed 12/10/2019. SO i am 5 months post op the titan implant was used to try to give me some sort of usable penis. i am 4 1/2 bone pressed ,5 1/4 girth lost 1 1/2 length from peyroines and all the surgeries . First attempt at sex was not good the head of my penis is soft and not engorging making penetration difficult , second i had little to no sensation.My penis is still numb the length of my penis and down in to my scrotum (where the incision was ). My question is has anyone experienced this type of problems? and i have read where the use of Viagra has helped with engorgement and sensation.i read all the stories about guys back in the saddle and i guess i am envious . ANY help or suggestions are appreciated.

Making sure your partner is WELL-lubricated surely will help.

I hate to ask, but are your implant's tips fully seated in your glans? That is, how "floppy" is the head of your penis? If the implant's tips do not support the glans well, pulling back on your shaft might make the tip of your penis more streamlined and easier to insert.

The numbness will likely go away. In some men it doesn't, but the odds are in favor of it getting better over the next year or two according to what I have read.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter

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Re: First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

Postby David_R » Wed Apr 29, 2020 4:23 pm

Lost Sheep wrote:Making sure your partner is WELL-lubricated surely will help.

True.

Wade1958
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Re: First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

Postby Wade1958 » Wed Apr 29, 2020 8:11 pm

Thanks guys for the responses,, the tips are at the end of my penis not really any (Floppy Head )
Just is soft and sometimes cold ! I agree the lubrication could have been better and will be a priority on the next attempt, About the length. As much trouble as I have had just trying to get a useable penis I would be afraid of traction or ved.
60 Very short period of ED,18 cm AMS cx 9/24/2018 Severe fibrosis , peyroines etc. second surgery 2/6/2019 to finish repairs from the first . Third surgery 12/13/2019 3 1/2 hour revision 16 cm titan so far so good. DR Wang Houston Texas

Lost Sheep
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Re: First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Apr 29, 2020 9:09 pm

Wade1958 wrote:Thanks guys for the responses,, the tips are at the end of my penis not really any (Floppy Head )
Just is soft and sometimes cold ! I agree the lubrication could have been better and will be a priority on the next attempt, About the length. As much trouble as I have had just trying to get a useable penis I would be afraid of traction or ved.

I should have mentioned that her personal lubrication is best, especially as getting that going will make her vagina more open to easy penetration as well. Adding a little store-bought lube might help also, but natural is best if it is still present.

You probably already know this, so don't be insulted. Others may not know that the difference is AMAZING.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter

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Re: First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

Postby Waynetho » Wed Apr 29, 2020 11:01 pm

...and a little preparation if your partner needs help, my wife is on Premarin cream. Applied every other day to the inner thighs or other nearby skin helps to raise estrogen levels sufficiently to increase female libido and lubrication over a period of time. With my wife, regular Premarin applications helped her within about a month.
62yo, married 41 yrs. Urolift (x4) 8/12/19. AMS 700CX 15cm (no RTE) penoscrotal 10/28/19, Frisco, TX. PD 1995/ED 2011. Cialis helped but hinged. (1995)L:6/G:5.5+, (2019)Pre-op L:5/G:4.5, (2/2020)L:6.0/G:5.0

Wade1958
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Re: First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

Postby Wade1958 » Fri May 01, 2020 2:17 pm

Thanks guys , i text my surgeon he did not feel the Viagra would help but i could try and i intend too.
60 Very short period of ED,18 cm AMS cx 9/24/2018 Severe fibrosis , peyroines etc. second surgery 2/6/2019 to finish repairs from the first . Third surgery 12/13/2019 3 1/2 hour revision 16 cm titan so far so good. DR Wang Houston Texas

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Re: First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

Postby DougAnd » Fri May 01, 2020 10:42 pm

I lost a lot from peyronies too but used ved to gain it back before surgery. Manual stimulation helps revive feeling sometimes. You may want to stand on the edge of the bed and lean in for deeper penetration. Just don't give up you'll figure out the right combo.
LGX 18cm+3cmRTE 8 / 8/18 by Docs Saracino , Prody of FL Disfigured by Implant. Married 31 years, Functionally impotent 2+ years. 4" day of surgery now 7" inflated after VED 6.5" without. Pump moved 12/4/18 by Dr Kata

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Re: First attempt at sex after 3 years of E.D.treatment not good !

Postby David_R » Sat May 02, 2020 8:35 am

DougAnd wrote: You may want to stand on the edge of the bed and lean in for deeper penetration.

Yep.


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