Curbsidegrumble wrote:im 3 weeks post implant. old penis was about 7.5". implant currently at 5in. what happened and am i right to be upset? will it grow back or should i seek revision? i have an ams lgx 18+3. please help i am angry and lost and only 25.
Others have said good things, especially good things to keep your spirit up.
And yes, 3 weeks is nothing. You have no clue yet as to what implanted life will be really.
You haven't even inflated yet, so you don't know.
Let me do some maths for you.
You say your dick was 7.5", which is 19 cm.
First, I have to assume this is what your size was the day before surgery. If that was some old pre-ED-shrinking size, then it's irrelevant.
But assuming that was your true size the day before surgery, then here are the numbers.
Your dick is (was) 19 cm.
Your implant is 21 cm.
Normally, what you are looking for is an implant which reaches roughly 1-2 cm from your penis tip. Let's say 2 cm.
That means you need 19-2 cm in your dick = 17 cm.
First of all, that only leaves 19-17=2 cm inside you. You might be an outlier, but that is an unusually shallow crus. Could be the way you are though.
Secondly, your implant is 18 cm + 3 cm RTE. Your 18 cm implant has 13 cm inflatable part, the rest, 5 cm, is fixed.
A part of that fixed part is in the front tips, let's say 1 cm.
That leaves 4 cm fixed part at the rear end, right next to the RTEs.
So you will have 3+4 cm = 7 cm fixed part in the rear end.
But your implant only goes 2 cm into your body, according to calc above.
So you will have 7-2 = 5 cm fixed part in your dick..?
That can't be right.
Assuming you have no fixed part in your dick, you will have 7 cm in your crus.
That leaves 21-7=14 cm in your dick.
If your dick truly is 19 cm, your tips will stop 19-14=5 cm from your penis tip.
Normally, that is a problem. Will give you floppy head and maybe atrophy.
But - and this is your big but - you do have an LGX.
It can expand 20% according to AMS, but rather 15-17% according to studies I have seen.
Let's say it can expand 17%, that is 17%*18 cm = 3 cm.
That would cut away 3 cm of 5 cm the implant would miss to reach your penis tip.
You would be left with your implant tips reaching 5-3=2 cm from your tip.
Which is exactly what you want.
So perhaps you will be all good.
You will know once you start cycling.
Hopefully your implant will expand in length when you inflate and the tips will find their way right up to the center of your glans.
So, to move on from the maths, I would say like C_lab: Don't expect things to be like before ED.
I am sure your pre-surgery condition was shit, otherwise you wouldn't have been implanted.
The dick you had before ED is long gone.
Your options were implant or the crap-dick you had before surgery.
Nobody ever said (well maybe some idiot did) that an implant is better than a perfectly functioning natural dick.
What we all say though is that it is better than an ED crap dick.
Most of us also think it is better than pills, vacuum pumps, injections etc, especially when those things don't have a 100% reliability.
An implant has a 100% reliability.
Every time in your life from a few weeks on when you want to have a hard dick, you can have one. It is a minute of pumping away.
Keep your bench mark right (your crap ED dick) and compare your implanted dick to that benchmark.
Nothing else.
You are young and you will probably end up in a few awkward situations in your life because of the implant.
But I am pretty sure that those awkward situations will be nothing compared to the misery of failing over and over again in sexual contacts with your natural ED dick.
Just stay strong, be confident about your implant.
I wouldn't be hanging up a sign in my bedroom and print in my forehead that I have an implant.
I would just take it as it comes. Casual sexual encounter, just get on with it.
Try to pump up discretely if you can, but not acting like a weirdo to get away with it.
You will learn how to deal with it, and most times I think you will get away without anyone noticing.
As for a steady girlfriend, which I understand you have, you will have to tell her of course.
But instead of feeling sorry for yourself having to pump your dick up, turn the implant to your advantage.
Forget, or ignore, the downsides.
Focus on and leverage the upsides.
And the obvious advantage is the stamina. You can literally have sex 10 hours per day if you want. And if someone wants to do it with you.
There are no boundaries anymore in terms of your dick's ability to get and stay erect.
And that's a pretty nice upside, especially when coming from ED, where there was constant worrying.
Good luck.