Wifey Has Had Enough, But I'm Still Getting The Implant. Am I nuts? LOL.

[Cigar56]

I don't want to offer up too much information, but wifey, who's approaching 70, simply isn't interested anymore -- not with me or anybody else. I'm a couple years younger, and I swear, my desire for sex is at an all-time high -- even greater than when I was a teen. I still enjoy masturbating, having orgasms and ejaculating. She's always had low libido, I've always been high libido, and sometimes I masturbate 1-2 times a day, so this latest development is not a surprise. She and I are simply mismatched sexually, but we have stayed together for four decades now, all while creating great kids and grandchildren.

Yet she's still supporting my decision to get the implant. She's even offered to allow me to "outsource sex" to to professional sex providers -- as long as she (my wife) never knows about it and it's just that -- sex.

Will I indulge? Probably not. Or maybe so. A couple buddies of mine are in the same situation and they say that arrangement has been a Godsend for them. But, at least for now, I am going to enjoy my implant. Thank goodness for all the great male sex toys on the market right now. Sex is temporary. Love is forever.

[tomas1]

Sounds like a plan.
My wife was seeming to not enjoy sex as much as usual last week.
She's 80.
I told her I was going to cut way back on the testosterone because I would just be horney and she didn't seem interested.
She said I should keep up the shots because they gave me more strength and energy.
The next day she suddenly got more interested in sex.
Married for 61 years and I still haven't figured her out.

[Cigar56]

Thanks, Tomas. I've always enjoyed and respected your posts.

[truckrglenn]

I'm single. I got my implant for two reasons. I'd been on a few dates after my divorce, but never tried to sleep with any of them because of the fear that I wouldn't stay hard. I even stopped dating because of this. I lost my confidence. I loved to flirt, but if a woman showed interest, I moved on.

The other of course is self masturbation. Not being able to maintain an election never stopped me from masturbating. I kept pulling on my limp dick. watching movies, the kinkier the better until I came.

Now the confidence is back. I feel like a real man again. Actually better because I know that if I run out of steam it's still hard.

[tomas1]

Cigar, thanks for the kind words and however you decided to proceed with the implant I think it's best. It's also just possible that wifey may regain some interest in sex. That would really be a "happy ending".

[Cigar56]

LOL, Thomas. I'm happy to have her allow me to outsource my needs -- if it comes to that. We'll see what happens.

[gene308]

Please see my post. Get the book "Naked at our age" sex, passion,intimacy changes as we age. A different approach may work better. I wish you the best.
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[gene308]

Sorry, the full url for my post is viewtopic.php?f=6&t=17701

[dirtman1993]

It is always great to have na erection but the mental part is even better.

[BuffaloMaxx]

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Married for 61 years and I still haven't figured her out.

That made my morning.