Gt1956 wrote:needsomehope wrote:Musson wrote:Need some hope-I agree there is a level of probable exaggeration on this site but I wont make any apologies for my obsession with my penis and it’s size. I’ve admitted to having some level of sex addiction and over identification with my penis. Going from a big dick to a small one due to Peyroines is a punch in the guts. I loved having a dick and miss the thrill of whipping it out the first time. Call me vain I guess. Nevertheless I find this site, although imperfect, very kind and helpful and quite supportive
And this is exactly what I’m talking about. You still don’t have a “small” dick, 5 inches is literally smack-dab average. But now anyone with a 4 or 5 inch dick that’s coming in here, already struggling, will see you referring to it as “small”.
This community is just not supportive to those of us with smaller dicks or those who’ve dealt with ED from a young age. It’s just a bunch of older guys talking bout their glory days and literally fawning over each other’s cocks.
There’s no valid support here for those of us TRULY struggling.
I would suggest that everyone temper their fears with the honesty factor on here. It seems like an unusual number of the members proclaim sizes noticeably longer than studies indicate as average. Call it what you want, brag, fear or honest mis measuring.
Measured on the dorsal (top), ruler pressed to the pelvic bone. Pretty hard to do it wrong if you follow the guidelines. My urologist did it exactly as I described for the stretch test. He carries a SIX INCH ruler in his smocks breast pocket. Yes 6 inches, not a foot ruler. He does around 150 implants a year & is featured on multiple Boston Scientific YouTube videos. I'm sure that his experience has taught him what size of ruler to carry.
The most common measuring mistake that I've seen on FT is placing the ruler on the side of the penis. Because the penis enters the body at an angle you naturally get a longer measurement. Plus there isn't a pelvic bone to hit with the end of the ruler. So there is more fake length.
To those that measure correctly & honestly report your length. You are most likely firmly within the parameters of average.
You also have to consider the factor that the people willing to share their dick sizes are WAY more likely to be above average and not below. Yes, as needsomehope said, this is all purely luck and I did nothing to deserve mine. But for the people who didn't get lucky, if you've got a 4" dick and an implant, most don't come to FrankTalk and put their small dick size in their signature and write about them.
People with above average dicks like bragging and talking about their dicks. People with below average don't. Who would you hear from the most?