Old Guy wrote:DougAnd wrote:The point I'm making is that if you are planning to get an implant someday and you are using medicines to help your erections, don't wait. The longer you wait the more diseased your penis becomes and the worse your operation will be. There are many problems that might arise from a more diseased penis that you would never face with a less diseased one. Fibrosis, scarring, plaque and penile shrinkage all make your IPP operation much harder and less effective. If any of you are now experiencing these things, I'm talking to you. Your penis is also talking to you. Are you listening?
Yes. Not sure why there is a couple who don't agree. Putting drugs in your system that no one knows yet if there will be long term side effects seems more dangerous than a surgery. Yes, it's an expensive surgery if you don't have insurance coverage. And yes, insurance might make you try the band aid fixes first before they cough up the bucks. And yes, it's irreversible but if you don't have natural erections is there any difference if it has to be removed? No.
But if it's broke, you fix it. If you blow out a knee, are you going to hobble around for years until you can't walk? No.
I agree that if I were 50+ (or even 40+) years old, I would have no second thoughts about going with an implant. At that age, almost half of the male population is dealing with *some* form of ED anyway, and an implant is certainly a good long-term solution for the remainder of your sexually active lifetime (requiring perhaps only 1 or 2 revisions). No need to hope for better treatments coming out during your lifetime. More importantly, the diagnosis and prognosis of ED is often much clearer at that age: if you had a prostatectomy, you know your erections are going to disappear; if you had lifelong hypertension, diabetes or some other vascular/neurogenic disease, you know that your arteries are getting clogged up and/or blood flow is compromised. You are absolutely certain that physical elements are causing your ED and will only get worse over time, so it's up to you to decide if you want to live like that or solve it. Literally nothing to lose (assuming you can afford it) going for an implant.
The decision becomes much harder when you are facing these issues in your 20s / 30s though. Implants will probably require multiple revisions, which could cost a lot of money and/or may cause physical complications (most notoriously, an infection, which could completely ruin your entire sexual future). So it's far from an ideal solution; one that you only want to go for if you are absolutely certain that nothing else will help you in the future. And unless you are diabetic and/or have some other less common disease, the cause of the ED may be unclear. The most common diagnosis amongst otherwise healthy young men is "venous leak", but most people fail to understand (unfortunately, even some doctors) that tests for VL are completely unreliable, and may show a VL simply due to psychological factors (e.g., anxiety). Psychological ED is the most common cause of ED for young men, and in this case going for a physical solution with an implant, while still a solution of course, may not be the best one.
My own situation as an example (young man, turning 28 next week): I remember that even as a teen, I'd sometimes lose erections during masturbation. I don't recall having much (if any?) morning wood in my early 20s. My last relationship (from 22-27), on top of all that I was so nervous in the beginning that I couldn't get it up the first few times we tried to have sex. Luckily, Cialis helped, and after using it for a few months, my anxiety around ED completely disappeared. I then noticed that I could often manage without it (despite having sex every day), although my PE may have masked the issues as I rarely had to maintain an erection longer than 5mins. I then only started taking the Cialis on weekends/special occasions where I wanted to be guaranteed not to fail. ED was mostly no longer on my mind, a wonderful feeling! Unfortunately, the relationship had other issues, and we broke up a few months ago. Since then, I'm again worried: no morning wood, issues getting it up even for masturbation, ... . Initially thought it was just due to post-breakup depression, but after a few months decided to have a Doppler test anyway to rule out physical issues. The injection (apparently, 15mcg PGE1) didn't do anything for me at all. Got diagnosed with venous leak. Started 5mg daily tadalafil, which "mostly works": I get morning wood most of the time (though it usually goes away quickly) and successfully had intercourse a few times since then, but the effectiveness seems to have already dropped over time.
I feel that my case is a mix of physical and psychological ED, keeping me from immediately jumping to an implant (considering the downsides and the fact it's irreversible). On the other hand, I'm sort of avoiding sex right now, and when it does happen my worries about "keeping it up" prevent me from really enjoying it as much as I should.
Born 1994.
Struggling with ED since 22 years old.
Doppler test (2022) concluded VL (no response at all to 15mcg PGE1).
Currently on 5mg tadalafil daily, and seeing a sexologist to tackle the psychological aspect. Varying results.