So it's been 4yrs since I was implanted. Three yrs ago, I moved to Africa and married a beautiful younger African lady (disabled vet). Sometimes she complains that the implant (kinda wish I never told her I had an implant) feels too hard or feels unnatural.
Anybody else hearing this or is she pulling my leg (I have so little trust in women, this is wife 4)? But she wants it pumped all the way up when it comes to sex...well duh don't complain if it feels too hard then!
It's put a doubt in my mind that I'm potentially unattractive (she says she's Ok with it, but most ladies there wouldn't have a man with an implant - according to her) because I'm not "natural." Not quite sure what direction this is headed.
Also, my incontanience (still about 92% dry on my own but leaking more) started coming back. I recently had the Urinary Sling installed but I think I'm gonna go back for the AMS100 or urinary sphincter. The Sling wasn't that effective for me. Any comments on recovery, use, concerns? Thx
Lady complaint
Lady complaint
Age 51, had prostate cancer. Surgery to remove prostate 12/17. Implanted 3/18, at VA Medical center in Cincinnati. AMS, LGX 15cm, 3cm RTEs.
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Pump less, only 70% and use cialis. Which country are you living in Africa btw?
Hard flaccid syndrome since 2019. Trying to get better with conservative treatments but an implant is on my radar
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In Kenya. Pension goes further, US too damn expensive anymore. Security is always concern.
Age 51, had prostate cancer. Surgery to remove prostate 12/17. Implanted 3/18, at VA Medical center in Cincinnati. AMS, LGX 15cm, 3cm RTEs.
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I agree with"thisworld"pump around 70%, then pump as needed, I also use viagra for glands
65 yr old vet, had nerve sparing RALP in Dec 2020 had ed problems before pc cancer surgery,used viagra,VED, used injections for couple years .Titan Implant Feb2022
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Tell her your wallet is genuine leather full of authentic currency.
63yr old. PDwith 40% dor. Curve. Pre-PD 7”x6”.lost 2 in. due to PD. ED prior to PD. Switched from Sildalifil to Trimix Nov 2023 . Currently titrating Trimix for optimization.
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I certainly don't like the way she's talking to you, sounds like emotional abuse to me telling you "most ladies there wouldn't have a man with an implant". I know I would get her the fuck out of my life if it were me, but of course all situations are different.
Early 30s with ED for years from penis enlargement stretching and jelqing. Implant by Dr Eid on 24 June 2021 with a Titan 24cm with +1cm RTE on one side and -1cm cut off on the other side
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When she is saying that she is Ok with it fully pumped, means she really likes the sex with the implant, who doesn't?
But if she told other women about the great sex she is having and mentioned the implant, it could be a kind of low balling from other women feeling jealous. Your wife might be a kind of being affect by any negative remarks. You may need to know if your implant secret told outside of your marriage. Just my 2 cents.
But if she told other women about the great sex she is having and mentioned the implant, it could be a kind of low balling from other women feeling jealous. Your wife might be a kind of being affect by any negative remarks. You may need to know if your implant secret told outside of your marriage. Just my 2 cents.
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1969. RP Oct. 2017. Pills and Trimix didn't work. Inguinal hernia repair on both sides. AMS CX 21 cm+1 RTE, by Dr. Kai Li at Kaiser, VA, Jan. 2021. FT member since July 2020 as AST2123. See my previous 457 posts.
1969. RP Oct. 2017. Pills and Trimix didn't work. Inguinal hernia repair on both sides. AMS CX 21 cm+1 RTE, by Dr. Kai Li at Kaiser, VA, Jan. 2021. FT member since July 2020 as AST2123. See my previous 457 posts.
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Sounds like she married you for money and this is just an excuse to get out of the sex she didn't want to have anyway.
44, ED problems began around age 28 when I was on finasteride for hair loss, and also got circumcised so I lost a lot of sensation. Pills gave me bad headaches and other side effects. Now using trimix 30/1/20. So far so good.
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wolfpacker wrote:I certainly don't like the way she's talking to you, sounds like emotional abuse to me telling you "most ladies there wouldn't have a man with an implant". I know I would get her the fuck out of my life if it were me, but of course all situations are different.
Your right. I think it’s time for OP to find someone younger and more attractive. Men in their 20s even have problems having sex with the same person all the time. It gets boring. Her expectations must be out of control. When I was 20 during a long relationship we would have sex maybe 4 times a month.
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I’m glad I live in a free country where I can even…..move to a not-so-free country if I choose. That being said, there’s more than a few red flags showing up with what you’ve told us.
No, life in the US is not dirt cheap but it’s still a bargain. You don’t have to live in NYC or LA or San Francisco or Miami. You get out to small town America, out in flyover country, it’s still possible to have a comfortable life on a retired paycheck. But I digress.
“Most women wouldn’t have a man with an implant.” What the F is THAT supposed to mean? I’m sorry, I think it might be time to pull on the overwing emergency exit and bail out. Sounds like her elevator might go up but not to the top floor.
No, life in the US is not dirt cheap but it’s still a bargain. You don’t have to live in NYC or LA or San Francisco or Miami. You get out to small town America, out in flyover country, it’s still possible to have a comfortable life on a retired paycheck. But I digress.
“Most women wouldn’t have a man with an implant.” What the F is THAT supposed to mean? I’m sorry, I think it might be time to pull on the overwing emergency exit and bail out. Sounds like her elevator might go up but not to the top floor.
Age 68. Physically fit educated red neck in Texas. Very married. 23 cm (18+5) of LGX installed by Dr. Bryan Kansas 12/31/2019. I fought the ED and my wife & I won. I’m either full of shit or sound advice. You decide which.
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