Dating Responses for Young Implantees

[Silverstorm777]

Hey everyone, I’ve decided to undergo a penile implant for severe psychological Ed that has with me years after multiple partners and serious relationships. At the ripe age of 30 I decided that I will be undergoing the procedure. Anyone in the young bracket explain how dating has been in detail? Have you found any dates or prospects that have given any negative responses or shunned you upon discovery?

[igotquestions]

just got out of surgery about 3.5 weeks ago, can just tell you that i believe girls will be fine with what we got and you gonna get. the biggest difference is that flaccid dick feels not super natural, its always hard inside but thats not really a big issue imo. my length is still quite short compared to before but everyone here telling me to stay calm and wait till i can start to cycle for a while, so iam not that worried about that too much.

obviously didnt have a new relationship yet but my ex told me she would have been okay with it. dont sweat it, if a girl likes you she gonna be okay with it unless something is really wrong with her and then you are better off without them anyways haha

[Lost Sheep]

Hey everyone, I’ve decided to undergo a penile implant for severe psychological Ed that has with me years after multiple partners and serious relationships. At the ripe age of 30 I decided that I will be undergoing the procedure. Anyone in the young bracket explain how dating has been in detail? Have you found any dates or prospects that have given any negative responses or shunned you upon discovery?

Welcome to the forum, Silverstorm777.

I don't know if you have done this, but when I first joined FrankTalk, I took a couple weekends to read through two and a half years of posts/threads with titles that interested me and appeared informative. I recommend this to you.

Here are a few old threads with information you might not get from currently active members, so would be completely missed if you simply wait for responses from current members.

Advice for women (written by a woman whose partner did not tell)
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7593

What will she think? - a womans perspective
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=6513

Any offers for sex from intrigued girls?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=7166

How will young women respond to implants?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 9&start=30

Getting discovered: How to tell a woman
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9236

Pumping in front of her a mood killer?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 6&start=10

Another Day, Another Research Question - Sponteneity
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9501

What excuse did you use? (More about explaining the surgery than to your partner)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9787

She can't feel anything (a little bit off the subject)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9594

Afraid of sex
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 3&start=10

Is this a common story?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10089

Does it feel different to her?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10103[/quote]

Partners Views of Implant
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=12966


Young man's biggest concern about implant
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7269

Erection: Organic or Mechanical?
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7738&p=55332

A Good Spouse or Partner
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=15956

[Minnesota#2]

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=20285

I talk a lot about this in my discussion post

[Silverstorm777]

https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=20285

I talk a lot about this in my discussion post

hey Minnesota I actually was following your posts pretty closely. You were actually a bit of an inspiration for me to finally move forward with this. Any chance I can speak to you one on one? I shot you a pm a few weeks ago I believe. Thanks!

[frank66665]

Lost Sheep is a living encyclopedia, if it didn't exist you'd have to invent it, great Lost Sheep

[Minnesota#2]

https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=20285

I talk a lot about this in my discussion post

hey Minnesota I actually was following your posts pretty closely. You were actually a bit of an inspiration for me to finally move forward with this. Any chance I can speak to you one on one? I shot you a pm a few weeks ago I believe. Thanks!

I am glad I was! and of course, reach out anytime and we can talk whether that be pm or through the phone. Happy to help. I don't see any PMs from you. I am extremely busy lately so I am only on here maybe once per week and when I am it's usually pretty quick so if you want to chat with quicker responses we can arrange something through PM.

I noticed you had a post about glans engorgement. I discussed that in my last update on my post as well.

[Silverstorm777]

https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=20285

I talk a lot about this in my discussion post

hey Minnesota I actually was following your posts pretty closely. You were actually a bit of an inspiration for me to finally move forward with this. Any chance I can speak to you one on one? I shot you a pm a few weeks ago I believe. Thanks!

I am glad I was! and of course, reach out anytime and we can talk whether that be pm or through the phone. Happy to help. I don't see any PMs from you. I am extremely busy lately so I am only on here maybe once per week and when I am it's usually pretty quick so if you want to chat with quicker responses we can arrange something through PM.

I noticed you had a post about glans engorgement. I discussed that in my last update on my post as well.

Thanks Minnesota, just shot you a pm! Thought i had done so previously but may have been mistaken lol. Also thanks as well lost sheep! Very helpful information!

[ShouldIwait]

Gotta love Lost Sheep!!

[Lost Sheep]

Hey everyone, I’ve decided to undergo a penile implant for severe psychological Ed that has with me years after multiple partners and serious relationships. At the ripe age of 30 I decided that I will be undergoing the procedure. Anyone in the young bracket explain how dating has been in detail? Have you found any dates or prospects that have given any negative responses or shunned you upon discovery?

Having given you time to read through the history of threads regarding women's perspectives and reactions, I add this observation of mine.

I never had a woman refuse me when I would tell her "My erection does not perform as well as I wish it did, but I will make every effort to ensure you are satisifed taking me into your bed." I don't think any woman would refuse a man who told her, "I had problems with erections, but It is all better now. " And you can do the "reveal" as you see fit.

If a conversation with a woman gets to the point where she is considering you for sex, how you do the "reveal" is important. But if you are in her bedroom (or her in yours) and you are artful, no woman who has already decided to have sex with you will back out just because you have to pump up (and already told her).

((Aside: There are many men on Franktalk who have successfully concealed the fact of their implant (or, at least, their partners have let them believe so - I know for certain of one woman who figured it out after two encounters but chose not to tell her man that she knew he was implanted. It is up to you to decide if you want to establish and/or maintain a secret in your relationship.))

Like I wrote before, women respect a man who is honest with her. I revealed in a dating site that I was seeking a "lab partner" to accomany my on my journey from impotence to implant-functionality. The ad clearly stated that sex before and after the implant would be involbed. I got only one response suggesting I not do that and even it was kind. A few others were congratulatory but declined my invitation. But these were supportive and called my post couragous and refreshing. Several others offered to participate.

If a woman finds your company pleasant and would otherwise accept you as a sexual partner, I see no reason an implannt would be a barrier any more than ED is. Provided you introduce the subject in an acceptable manner. Some women would respond to, "I can stay erect inside you for as long as you can stay wet." or turned off by it in favor of a more oblique promise, "I have a magic dick." You will have to use your flirting and conversational skills to pick the reveal.