Connected Sex

[Mark1974]

What if you have sex with a woman and become infatuated with her?

[Hillywilly]

So, I am having trouble wrapping my head around the idea of being erect on demand and being able to fuck anyone anywhere anytime.

I am a gay man and only attracted to men. With an implant, I could pretend to be attached to women and they would not be the wiser.

I worry that I may fall in the trap of “just because I can fuck whenever, I should. This worries me.

I am an older gay man in Fort Lauderdale and there are many hot younger and older men. There are also many unattractive younger and older men.

I don’t know if I will get addicted to this new toy to the point that I will have sex with anything that walks just because I can.

I’m a fairly attractive, fit muscled guy.

Have you found yourself lowering your “standards” just because you can?

Does anyone have insight on this?

I thought about lowering my standards and fucking any chick that moved but whenever I match with anything below an 8 on tinder, hinge etc I just don't feel like going. I want a quality experience not high quantity as I've gotten older my standards have raised and I don't want to waste my time on a girl i'm not very attracted too. Implant hasn't changed it.

[Lost Sheep]

When I was about to get my implant I planned (or hoped) to try out my rebuilt "hot rod" on as many different racetracks and park in as many gargages as I could (partly to make up for lost opportunities in the past and to make up for the fact that I "owed" a LOT of orgasms to women I had short-changed in the past).

So, your wondering about your own behavioral changes is not surprizing to me.

Check out this thread

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=20796
"Did you go promiscuous after implant?"

I am a gay man and only attracted to men. With an implant, I could pretend to be attached to women and they would not be the wiser.

Unless you are a VERY good actor, any woman you bed down with is likely to detect your lack of "enthusiasm" for the female form. To paraphrase Abraham Lincoln, "You can fool some people some of the time", but sooner or later the truth will out. (especially with women, who are generally more astute about interpersonal relationships than men)

Having said that, if you need a "beard" to keep up appearances in public, a woman who gets sexually satisfied might overlook your lack of heterosexuality in favor of its facsimile. I don't know if you have had sex with women in the past, but I have heard that some women find anal sex even more intense/enjoyable than vaginal. But that would be a subject for different thread, I guess.

Have you found yourself lowering your “standards” just because you can?

My opinion: You are just as likely to lower your standards as you are to raise them. I will further venture (from reading between the lines of your posts) that you are more likely to raise your standards, perhaps after a period of lowered standards while you exercise your rebuilt phallus.

[Mark1974]

I think if you have sex with a decently attractive and intelligent woman and you smell her scent when she's aroused and hear her moans when you satisfy her that there's a good chance you're not going back to guys

[phliptrip]

I feel your concern, if i had this when i was in my 20s it would have been bad... My body count would have been huge. Older now, not so much.

[GoodWood]

There doesn’t seem to be any reason to “lower” your standards. Post implant you will be able to have an erection whenever you want for as long as you want.
That is an attractive feature for lots of folks.

Pair that with being kind, attentive, and fun and you will be VERY popular.

Sex is great. It is a wonderful thing to share with someone else.

[Justforest]

I’m confused by your post FLSpeedo1. You said in an earlier post that you were struggling with getting an implant and you only know one guy with one. Now you’re saying you HAVE an implant and you can fuck anyone, anytime, anywhere. So which is it? I personally know at least 15 men with implants in this SoFlo community.