Performance anxiety on implant

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drayan123
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Performance anxiety on implant

Postby drayan123 » Wed Jul 12, 2023 9:42 am

The built up anxiety over the years of Ed I’ve had has ruined it even on pills . My question is do you still get performance anxiety with ur implant ?

Anfornee
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Re: Performance anxiety on implant

Postby Anfornee » Wed Jul 12, 2023 10:07 am

I do not. I did with the pills and shots. But not now. It works every time. It’s guaranteed.
Titan 24XL implanted by Dr Hakky on 6/13/23

Old Guy
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Re: Performance anxiety on implant

Postby Old Guy » Wed Jul 12, 2023 10:27 am

My only anxiety since I got the implant is running out of energy or my bad back flaring up.
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atul21
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Re: Performance anxiety on implant

Postby atul21 » Wed Jul 12, 2023 12:32 pm

I had extreme anxiety before. Post implant when I had sex the first time I was nervous. But soon it all started to work as it should. Now I don’t get any anxiety about not being able to perform.
42 yr old from India, Ed since many years.
Coloplast Titan 22 cms one touch pump no rte; implanted by Dr. Billy Cordon in Miami on 02-March-2023. Found Dr. Cordon on reco from Dr. Eid after he fell sick.
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Re: Performance anxiety on implant

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Jul 12, 2023 2:37 pm

drayan123 wrote:The built up anxiety over the years of Ed I’ve had has ruined it even on pills . My question is do you still get performance anxiety with ur implant ?

After implant, I had performance anxiety (not unlike atul21 reported,, I think). I worried that I had forgotten how. Things like lining up the right angle for penetration, timing of when to move up from foreplay, etc. I had no anxiety over losing the erection, though.

ED does undercut a man's confidence in subtle and not-so-subtle ways. Shedding that self-doubt takes time. Understanding it helps. Having an understanding partner helps more.
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Re: Performance anxiety on implant

Postby Captain1117 » Wed Jul 12, 2023 5:27 pm

Lost sheep

You are amazing with your insightful and empathetic input..as always.
" The greatest benefit of an implant is that a man stops thinking about ED."-Dr.Eid

48, healthy, straight, single.ED after turning 40. AMS LGX implanted by Dr.Yonah Krakowski in June 2023.

Time2Change
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Re: Performance anxiety on implant

Postby Time2Change » Wed Jul 12, 2023 6:26 pm

I didn't have anxiety.

But what I did have to do was relearn how to fuck the right way.

For years prior to my implant, I could only hope to stay hard in a couple of positions. And I dragged us through a very prescribed set of moves on the very rare occasions that we had sex.

So, I had to learn to let go of that routine. I had to learn to relax. And I literally had to relearn how to fuck my wife the right way in different positions--missionary, doggy style, cowgirl, etc.

But what a relief not to have to worry about getting hard or going soft. That knowing certainly did a lot to eliminate my anxiety.
55; ED for 23 years; Coloplast Titan implant on 10/26/20; Dr. Martin Gross; Happy to share my experiences in private messages

Howling8
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Re: Performance anxiety on implant

Postby Howling8 » Wed Jul 12, 2023 7:21 pm

I still get it even with the implant. I have great engorgement because my surgeon left a lot of tissue, but it the anxiety kicks in it reverts to the oval skin plastic tubes. It doesn't feel nearly as good and is really noticeable during oral. I've tried silicon cock rings with some success along with Cialis. I'm in the process of trying to convince myself that I can still orgasm just as I could with a limp dick in the past. I've done it while masturbating and just before I come it swells up again.

I'm surprised that they haven't figured out a way to inject Trimix to an area that won't injure the implant. Iv'e tried Trimix Gel but it gave me a rash.
Thanks
67 yr old, married 20 yrs,
Cialis, Trimix since 2004
MIA in 2004
Implanted by Dr Guise on 10/28/21
Pre-op: 6.3" length 6" girth
14 mos post op: 6.5" lento and 5.75 girth on shaft and 6" at the base

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SWorks17
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Re: Performance anxiety on implant

Postby SWorks17 » Wed Jul 12, 2023 8:19 pm

drayan123 wrote:The built up anxiety over the years of Ed I’ve had has ruined it even on pills . My question is do you still get performance anxiety with ur implant ?


The only time I had some anxiety, was the first time I got to use my new Bionic Dick at 7 weeks. It was new and I still had some numbness and pain, but it was great to have sex again and not worry about getting soft at the end.
It was awkward at the beginning, trying to figure out how much I needed to pump it up to have satisfactory PIV sex, but it got better every week after that.
No more anxiety, I know that it will work every time and I can satisfy my wife, getting her to climax and myself also.
Age 66, Garden Ridge Texas, Boston Scientific Rezum procedure for benign enlarged prostate 19 May 21, AMS LGX 18cm with 3cm RT's installed 5 Nov 2021 by Dr Shane Barney, San Antonio, Texas, Married 36 years. Dick of the Day pg75 and pg131

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Re: Performance anxiety on implant

Postby Witheringhog » Thu Jul 13, 2023 6:09 am

Anfornee wrote:I do not. I did with the pills and shots. But not now. It works every time. It’s guaranteed.


Exact same for me.
49 - Coloplast Titan 22 implanted 5-2 Dr. Clavell in Houston


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