newbie443 wrote:I am somewhat like you. The thing is I read that we all are responsible for our own orgasm. Men and women both. But that being said a man, or a woman can mess up a partner's orgasm. It is great though to know you can do what is needed to not mess up your partners orgasm. And being able to have an erection is a great help for me. I feel whole. When I had ED and could not get an erection with pills or injections, I was a grumpy old man. Just having the implant is great for me even without sex. I had 2 women I was having sex with after my implant surgery. I think you are correct in that there are women in our age group that want sex. Not a lot but as you said more women that want sex than there are men in our age group to take care of the women. I used to work for a seniors group and would go to apartments for seniors and had a man tell me that women would grab his ass in the elevator. Not sure he was able to do anything about it though. My on line dating experience is that there are more women who just want a man for activities and to do minor repairs ect... A number of them said they did not want sex. Women live longer than men so at our age the women outnumber the men.
If you are able to have an implant then I would say to get one. There is always a risk though so get the best doctor you can and follow the instructions to the letter. Even then there is still a bit of risk. The thing for me was that I had nothing going into the surgery so I could only improve.
Personally, a big part of the equation for me in a relationship with any woman, has to be sexual. I see no other reason to form a bond with a woman if this is not a part (big part) of it.
