Implant and dating

[Witheringhog]

Lol, well, guess i didn’t private dm that

[Witheringhog]

Lol, well, guess i didn’t private dm that

[aslanglobal]

I was implanted at 37 and told many of the women I hooked up with. That didn't stop them from returning. I usually pump it up a little before becoming physical the first time and then can easily get a few pumps in. I don;t worry about judgements. I can have sex for as long as I want- that is such a privilege. None of these women have cared once they experienced it. No, I don't think there's any real difference in feeling for women. Don't worry about it. Welcome

Hi all I am new to this forum. I am getting my implant next week so I am looking forward to being "normal" again. I do NOT have a steady GF/woman yet so I will be "dating". Questions to those of you who already have theirs:

1. Can most women TELL an implant from a natural erection? I think I would rather not disclose that if I can get away with it. Not sure I am into this "why don't you help me pump it up?" thing.

2. On a hot date after the making out started, would you leave the implant flaccid and go through the foreplay and then somehow excuse yourself to pump it up to be ready for action? Or would you pump it up half way first before foreplay so there is less pumping to do once you need it rock hard? I am thinking there would be hand and oral stimulation before actual penetration.

3. I am not totally impotent now - I can still have a good and hard erection when properly stimulated, so blood is still flowing to the right places. My problem is not being able to sustain it or I would lose the erection with any distractions. My question is would my penis still gets (somewhat) engorged when turned on (say, making out)? And then the pumping would be like icing to the cake and help to sustain the erection indefinitely?

4. With the implant the penis would still be hard after orgasm, so theoratically one can keep going till the woman is done? Is that a likely scenario?

Sorry if my questions sound naive or silly. Thanks in advance!

[gakman]

My wife and i split for a few months, i had zero issues with the 4 chicks i banged knowing anything. You will be fine. Didnt want to publicly post since i have inlaws I recommend this board to.

Thanks for the inputs. i am sure all will be clear soon after i got the implant. just try to imagine what the new life be like. Looking forward to new relationships and possibly to test out the new tool on some service provider as well

[Gt1956]

Definitely yes, natural engorgement does happen. I just did an over 400 mile solo car trip. During driving, thoughts do wander. I got a partial erection that was rather bothersome. Probably the worst part was that it was slow to subside.

I'll venture a guess on this. Any engorgement or how much might be related to your natural girth. Think about it for awhile. If your natural girth was on the average or lower side? The cylinders likely take up most of the available room. So not really much available room (if any) to engorge.

If your natural girth is above average or even on the larger side. There is likely room to engorge. A second point is that before your implant there was a lot of tissue/room to try to engorge. Now, with an implant. There is a chance that whatever engorement effort your body might be able to muster up. It is more effective because it doesn't have to engorge as much tissue to have a decent effect.

Only my experiences & a theory to explain what happens with MY dick.

[CigareVolant]

Lots of good answers, but I thought I'd consolidate. Shortest answers first.

4. With the implant the penis would still be hard after orgasm, so theoratically one can keep going till the woman is done? Is that a likely scenario?

Not theoretical at all. That's exactly how it works. Very fun!

3. I am not totally impotent now - I can still have a good and hard erection when properly stimulated, so blood is still flowing to the right places. My problem is not being able to sustain it or I would lose the erection with any distractions. My question is would my penis still gets (somewhat) engorged when turned on (say, making out)? And then the pumping would be like icing to the cake and help to sustain the erection indefinitely?

Not so much. I definitely feel some swelling in the head and around the urethra. It's nice to feel things swelling in my pants when I got turned on. But pretty much all of the hardness comes from pumping. For most of us, I think, the implant displaces our natural swelling tissue inside the corpus cavernosum.

1. Can most women TELL an implant from a natural erection? I think I would rather not disclose that if I can get away with it. Not sure I am into this "why don't you help me pump it up?" thing.

I've only had sex with two different women since I got my implant. One just a few times and the other many, many times. I don't believe that either of them noticed, although I have wondered with Miss Many-Many-Times. At one point she said something like, "It's different with you. I don't know if you are aware of what it's like with other men, but most of them are done pretty fast." In any case, I didn't talk about it with either one and both were enthusiastic repeat customers.

2. On a hot date after the making out started, would you leave the implant flaccid and go through the foreplay and then somehow excuse yourself to pump it up to be ready for action? Or would you pump it up half way first before foreplay so there is less pumping to do once you need it rock hard? I am thinking there would be hand and oral stimulation before actual penetration.

I have enjoyed playing around with how soft is still good enough for sex and how hard will still fit into my pants, and there is a good bit of overlap.

If I suspect that I'm going to have sex, I usually inflate a bit, but not so much that it pushes my penis away from my body. Like, my firmness might be visible through the pants, but I don't inflate so much that my penis is actually pushing away from my body. I might do that in a restaurant bathroom during dinner, or even before I leave home. Even that amount is probably hard enough for sex. I mean, the thing about "soft sex" with an implant is that the erection is not going away. With my pre-implant penis, soft usually meant "on the way down," so even if it was technically hard enough for sex, it probably wasn't going to be for long. Finally, when you've got it mostly hard, it's easy enough to add a couple of extra pumps here and there when things really get moving. Roll her onto her back and nibble her nipples. Pump, pump. Go down on her. Pump, pump.

I think your real question is, "Can I have comfortable and natural sex with an implant," and the answer is emphatically, "Yes!"

[oldbeek]

I can go with 10 pumps in it all the time. That is hard, bold, showing through your slacks. The girl will just think you are turned on. You can get it into a lubricated pussy being just that hard. A girl you are dating needs to be licked anyway. I had a hooker the other day and she said I was doing very good for an old guy while she was pouring on the lube. As I entered her doggie, I moved it up to about 30 pumps while rubbing my glans on her cunt. She tried every position but I could not cum. She put one foot on the floor and the other stretched up on the table for me to get full penetration. I pumped it to max. That is when she started to wince with pain. It was a rxr spike. Finally after about an hour I told her to remove the rubber and jack me off. I told her to keep yanking even if I came. It was amazing and I tapped her on the back after about a minute and she started wiping me off. As she turned to get a hot towel I squeezed the release. She comes back to wash me off and says, I thought that things never going to give up. I dont know if she knew it was a implant or not but I was shaking from the experience 1 1/2 hrs later. Happy fucking!

[gakman]

"Can I have comfortable and natural sex with an implant," and the answer is emphatically, "Yes!"

That's wonderful to know, thank you for sharing.

My natural erection - I can still get a HARD erection for masterbation with 1. a bit of THC, 2. the Eddy ring AND 3. the "right" porn that turns me on.

And since I masterbate alone - just me and my laptop in the privacy of my own room, I am not easily distracted. I think with a hard erection it is about 5" and a very decent girth that don't fit in the toilet paper tube. And since I dated mostly Asian women before, plus all the service providers, had always commented that "I have a big one" (not in terms of length but girth). So I am looking forward to see what happens later.

Certainly not "bragging" here - a big hard one doesn't mean shit if/when it goes limp with ANY kind of distraction - such as the wrong music; room temperature being too hot/cold; a fly in the room; or simply just "worrying about how long this would last". And once the erection began to go away, "resuscitation" - even by a gorgeous naked women with big tits sucking on it, does NOT bring it back

[Cazcade]

Very new to this but so far the 3 women I've slept with post implant have not said one odd or negative thing about my penis or sex game. It's all been positive. All 3 had it in their mouth (inflated) and didn't mention a thing. One is early 20s one late 20s and my ex early 30s.

The only reason I mention this is because this topic was a HUGE worry for me before I decided on the implant. I was worried it would look/feel apparently unnatural but 5 days after my surgery I couldn't visually see or feel a difference in my shaft or glans at all, of course if you really examine the scrotum you'll notice something off but so far I'm confident this thing looks and feels like my penis.

The women I've slept with are all women I've slept with PRE implant so they were familiar and didn't notice.

[gakman]

….The women I've slept with are all women I've slept with PRE implant so they were familiar and didn't notice.

I have had three GF in the past 3 years where ED, i.e. my penis not able to perform, was a main cause of why the relationships failed. i would pass the limpness off as “…gosh i don’t know what happened…. maybe it’s the Lisinopril i have been taking…” rather than admitting the fact that i was a lousy fuck because the Viagra i have been using for the past 20+ years had run its course.

I may look these women back up and tell them “hey i am off the Lisinopril now” after my new tool is battle ready to “redeem myself”